sarahzoic, why did you get married SO young?

Miss.Modular · October 2008

were you knocked up? are you super religious? it has to be one or the other!

sunnysouthfla · October 2008

OH lord there you go!!

sarahzoic · October 2008

I'm not married yet.
I'm really not religious.
It's just where I'm at in this point of my life, and it's perfect for me.

Anything else? ;]

Miss.Modular · October 2008

ahhh not married 'yet'

so i WAS right!

sarahzoic · October 2008

No, you're wrong.
The baby was not an accident, and I didn't just 'get knocked up'.

Miss.Modular · October 2008

so wait.

you are not even 21, and had a planned pregancy with a boyfriend?

something is fishy about this!!

MayDayGirl · October 2008

I knew SEVERAL people who got married very young (right out of HS) and weren't knocked up or religous.

Just saying.

blessourlife · October 2008

sarah apparently you are having a biography written about you!

you're famous chica!

sarahzoic · October 2008

That is correct.

Now if you want we can go back to say, about 6 months ago and have an all-day "Sarah's too young" flamefest'. I mean, if that would be of any entertainment to you?

cbbc · October 2008

Is this just a general question or is it coming from another post?

Geekchick921 · October 2008

The drama llama strikes again!

I actually figured it was something else (though I couldn't remember if Sarah was married or not): that her honey was military. Military folks often get married younger, too, or so my best friend tells me. She's in the army and a lot of her military friends got married around 20 or younger, and someone she was dating in the ranks wanted to marry her, but she wasn't ready and just didn't want to marry him anyway.

JARbaby · October 2008

This baby is an accidnet, they happen...it is okay.

sarahzoic · October 2008

MayDayGirl:

I knew SEVERAL people who got married very young (right out of HS) and weren't knocked up or religous.

Just saying.

Ditto.

and I know people who have been together for 40+ years and never got married! who cares!

Miss.Modular · October 2008

oh pleaseeee mayday, you run with the religious types, so dont give me that!

Jim&Jaime · October 2008

We would have to consider my little man an accident as well, but we're okay with that.

sarahzoic · October 2008

sarahzoic:
No, you're wrong.
The baby was not an accident, and I didn't just 'get knocked up'.

Janimal · October 2008

Miss Mod, you complain about the board being boring and the best you can come up with is recycling flames to Sarah about being young and unmarried? Yawn.

skiebunnies · October 2008

Sarah - this is very "2nd tri" deja vu

Jim&Jaime · October 2008

Sorry Sarah, I wasn't agreeing with anyone, I was just trying to point out that accident or not, who cares? We're all here now dealing with, more or less, the same things.

Sarah3716 · October 2008

I wasn't knocked up and I am not particularly religious... I was 18...

sarahzoic · October 2008

Janimal, don't blame Mod, she just wasn't here yet for the 2nd tri festivities. =p

carlock07 · October 2008

I got married at 21...no wasn't "knocked up"(which by the way I think is a TACKY thing to say), not really religious and not in the military. Now having a baby at 22. Everyone is different, and entitled to there own way of doing things! Don't get pissy because it took you longer to find love and get "knocked up"!!

SoMdGirl83 · October 2008

Someone please show me where you have to be married to have children.

soveryexcited · October 2008

I got married when I was twenty, totally not knocked up, no military uniforms in sight, and in February (I'll still be 24!) I will have TWO babies! (both incidentally, who were hoped and planned for). And I'm seriously not religious.

Geekchick921 · October 2008

Seriously, if DH and I could have afforded it we would have gotten married and had kids a few years ago, and I just turned 24 a few weeks ago. It just wasn't a possibility before this. Plus, Sarah is an absolutely adorable pregnant chick.

MayDayGirl · October 2008

mod these weren't any people I was friends with. Just people who went to HS with me.

Ritzy19 · October 2008

Why am I not surprised that Mod would originate a post like this.

Seriously. Get a life.

Mikeysbride2b · October 2008

young=inexperienced and sometimes when you are 19 you think you can do it all and are ready and for some that may be true.. to me, it is incredibly risky and you have your whole life to grow up and live, so why add marriage and a kid to that equation?? It wasn't for me, but everyone is different!

shaykrista · October 2008

I was married at 21....met my Dh when I was 18 and now having a baby at 23.......I will be 24 before the baby is born. Who cares about age.....as long as she is happy with her life!

Mikeysbride2b · October 2008

young=inexperienced and sometimes when you are 19 you think you can do it all and are ready and for some that may be true.. to me, it is incredibly risky and you have your whole life to grow up and live, so why add marriage and a kid to that equation?? It wasn't for me, but everyone is different! Also, it could depend on how you were raised.. for me, I was raised to go to college, get a job, and be part of society before being a parent and a wife. I also live where being young is looked down upon, I think in middle America it is more common to be young, but not here right outside NYC!!

Sarah3716 · October 2008

Exactly... where I live most people are married and have kids by the time they are 25 or so... most before they are around 22. When I see people on here who are in their mid to late 30's it seems so weird to me- the majority of people that are my age (19) have parents who are in their late 30's to mid 40's. Most of them would be horrified if they were to have another baby now. It is just the norm where I live for people to graduate, start college, get married and have kids... I live in a really rural area which probably has alot to do with that though!

Beth823 · October 2008

Huh... I'm 21 and my husband is 20. We didn't plan on this child (I wouldn't say knocked up, I would say she is a gift!), and we are both "religious". We wanted to get married before but we were focusing on school. ?

I guess my point is that I don't think being religious or having an unplanned pregnancy or being young for that matter makes a difference. My husband and I are so excited about this baby and we have never been happier. ?

mrs.Lucky531 · October 2008

I'm 22. We got married in May and were already pregnant. (Obviously.) I couldn't be happier. Mind you we were already engaged before we got pregnant, but we went ahead and got married because we got pregnant. I couldn't be happier!! Why does it matter, as long as you're happy!!

brittanydiaz86 · October 2008

I got married when I was 17, I am now 22 (5 yrs later) and still have a great Marriage!!

WHy do you care why she got married so youg??

Swannja1 · October 2008

I don't know the back story but from just reading this post, I say... Leave The Poor Girl Alone.

GeekChick... I almost spit my Coke out at your siggy!

browniec · October 2008

What is wrong with people??? Worry about your own life and your own child and leave her alone. Mikesbride (or whatever your name is) you think its irresponsible that she did this . MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS and worry about your own life...

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