How to ask...
My soon-to-be SIL told me that she and FI have been trying to concieve (well not trying, but not doing anything to prevent it) for a few months. They are getting married in June and would be happy if she was already a few months pregnant. They are 34 and 33yo so they don't want to wait to start their family. She said she thinks she is going to have problems convieving- just a feeling from what she said, no "issues" mentioned- and has an appointment with a fertility doctor lined up this week. I wanted to text her and see what's up, if she had gone yet, any results she might have gotten, but I feel like "Hey, did you go to the fertility doctor yet?" is a bit intrusive. She mentioned the appointment to me and we talked all about them TTC so I feel like she wouldn't mind sharing if she went/results/etc but how do I ask?
We aren't phone chatters, email and text only, unless we are in person then we chat away. Thanks for any advice!
Re: How to ask...
DD#1 - January 2008
DD#2 - September 2010
I dunno.. I think I'd wait until this weekend to ask about it. Give them a little bit of time to digest the information, etc. Otherwise, you might come across as nosy.
But that's just me.