This may be a personal question, but I am hoping you will share. What percentage of your monthly take home pay (not you and DH, just your pay) goes to childcare (daycare/preschool/nanny, etc)?
I only have part time childcare (nanny and preschool) and the percentage is very low (around 18%). But I am trying to plan for when baby #2 comes and out of my take home pay, my monthly estimated child care expenses will be around 42% (just for part time), which seems really high. So I am curious, if you are willing to share, what percentage of your take home goes to child care.