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Feeling Guilty....about feeling bad

babyjune1babyjune1
in December 2010 Moms

Hi Ladies!

So I guess I finally get to experience the crazy rush of hormones that comes with bearing a beautiful child. I started crying yesterday and sure enough again today out of frustration. I was an hour late to work because I had really bad m/s and this morning I didnt even make it in! I cry because I am tired of feeling so sick and then part of me feels so guilty for complaining and I wonder how my mother did it all. I want to be strong but I cant help but feel so helpless.

 I use to workout every day and I havent been to the gym in weeks. My clothes are starting to feel really tight too! Anyone else feel frustrated? Im sorry....

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Re: Feeling Guilty....about feeling bad

  • janneann1127janneann1127 member
    Yes! I know exactly how you feel. It took us 8 months to get pregnant, and I wanted it so badly. Now I feel all the things you're describing, I"m bloated & tired and cranky.. I just keep trying to remember how much I wanted this. Eye on the prize, as my husband says! Try to relax and remember that its ok to feel this way. Your body is going through a ton of changes! everyone says it gets better in the 2nd tri... don't worry hon, it will get better. :)
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  • babyjune1babyjune1
    Awww Im sorry you arent feeling well either Meghan. Thank you for sharing, I dont feel so bad anymore. I hope you will feel better soon as well! Big Smile
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  • babyjune1babyjune1

    Thank you!!! Yes I tell myself every day "you wanted this" and I have dreamt of having a baby since I was 8 lol! And we are so blessed so thats why I feel so guilty. But I feel so happy knowing that I am not alone.

     Thanks ladies!!!!

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  • babyjune1babyjune1
    Yes I have read that this week is very crucial for the baby's development maybe thats why I am so frustrated. I will have my first appt (finally!!) on Friday so I will be sure to ask her about everything that I am experiencing. Thanks!!!!
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  • kaleqtkaleqt

    Yes... I feel exactly the same way even broke down and cried too because I couldn't eat any of my food!... Be strong we will get through this! My Dh has been super supportive with me. He has been getting me to go outside, leaving bread on my nightstand in case I wake up at night. He even bought me new sports bras to wear at home cause he read it will help with the soreness I am having with my boobs. If I didn't have him and my Dec. bumpies I wouldn?t know what I'd do! Hang in there.

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  • MCH77MCH77 member

    I feel like I keep complaining to DH, which makes me feel bad.  But I feel like crap and it sucks.  I just keep trying to give myself little goals (tomorrow is my Dr appointment, the next goal will be my birthday in 1 1/2 weeks). 

    2nd tri... please be nice to all of us  :)

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • mavosslermavossler
    these first few weeks are killer....hang in there - being sick sucks....plain and simple. It doesn't mean you aren't thankful for the life growing inside you, it just means you hate feeling so crummy!
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