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Bad Night (Vent)

DeeandBradDeeandBrad
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I am on the verge of tears tonight.  I am rarely very emotional but for some reason tonight I am overwhelmed, frustrated, and tired.  I am so sick of being in pain.  My c-section incision is infected and is hurting constantly.  I am ready to be back to my normal self so I can take care of my 1 year old without help.  I can't lift her up yet.  I just want to pick her up and give her a big hug and get down on the floor and play (now I am officially crying). 

I am also overwhelmed by housework.  My DH is doing is best to keep up on everything but it isn't like I would do it.   We have a bunch of laundry and dishes in the sink but I have no energy to do it.   On top of all this I have two papers due for my classes in four days.  I haven't started writing any of them.

Plus DD didn't take a nap today so she is super crabby and to make matters worse she dropped my cellphone in the dogs water and broke it just a little bit ago,

I wish I was out of pain.  I wish I could run and pick up my baby girl.  I wish I could not worry about housework & school work and just enjoy my family.

Sorry to be a downer just having a rough evening. 

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  • brittbritt9621brittbritt9621
    tomorrow is another day hun! get some rest, dont sweat the small stuff!
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  • kate1011kate1011

    I'm sorry you're having a rough time.  It will get better.  I hope your incision heals fast.  Do you have any family/friends near by that you can call to come over and help you?  Or lend a shoulder and an ear? 

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  • lindsaynjasonlindsaynjason
    I'm sorry you are having such a rough day.  I hope it gets better soon.  ((HUGS))
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  • amoureuxamoureux

    Sounds like it is time to ask for help.  Have a friend or family member come over and do some cleaning.

    I would also talk to your profs and let them know the situation.  You aren't looking for an extension because you have been partying and not working. You had major surgery and now it is infected.

    You have a lot to deal with right now.  It is ok to feel overwhelmed.

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  • DeeandBradDeeandBrad
    Thanks everyone for the kind words.  I do have lots of help now.  My mom or my sister is here with me during the day while DH is at school to help with DD.  DH just did the dishes and made us dinner & fruit smoothies.  I am feeling a little better.  I think I just needed some TLC from DH.
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