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Speaking of horrible eating.....

I have neices whose diet consists of:

Cheetos

cereal, only prepared with whipped topping instead of milk.

crackers/chips

granola bars

cheese

Spaghetti

hotdogs and chicken nuggets are the only meat they eat

and an occasional banana.

Not exagerrating.  We have Sunday dinner most Sunday's at my IL's house and the girls "already ate before we came over" or "won't eat that, can I get them cheetos?" Its horrible.

And my BIL and SIL refuse to do anything about it.  One Sunday the meal my MIL prepared was Spaghetti...one that they eat.  But they aren't used to eating the actual meal there, so they both threw a fit until they got Cheetos.  When BIL said to SIL "no, don't let them eat Cheetos.  They like Spaghetti...they can eat that first.  They need real food sometimes too." SIL responsed with "Cheetos ARE real food."  uh huh!  awesome.

Also--BOTH girls have learning and behavioral issues.  Wonder why.....

Re: Speaking of horrible eating.....

  • I love Cheetos as much as anyone, but there is no way they are real food.

    I had a revelation recently when I cut down on DS's after-school snack. All of a sudden he wasn't as picky about his dinner. Amazing.

    I believe that kids are eating so many snacks these days that their bodies/brains can't tell when they are really hungry anymore.

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  • Sounds EXACTLY like Cam's food list.

    Sucks!

  • I agree with Elise.

    I've implected a two-snack a day policy with my kids (one between breakfast and lunch and one between lunch and dinner) and it's worked out wonderfully.  My kids are actually eating their meals and the snacks are fruit, dried fruit, yogurt and maybe a granola bar.

     

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  • That's terrible! 

     I have a friend who put diet coke in a sippy cup for her 2 year old because "she only likes diet coke and chinese food."  It's amazing to me what people do.  

  • It is so hard to eat at someone's house with a picky eater but it isn't impossible to find a healthier snack food to bring.  If J won't or can't eat what is offered she gets cheese cubes and carrot sticks, not cheetos. 

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  • kinda like Michelle's food list only she eats cereal with milk and I rarely give her stuff like cheetos and potato chips.

    I stopped letting her graze all day now that she is eating more kinds of foods and her eating is getting better.  However she still eating 4-5 smaller meals because I can get her to eat more that way.  But the perpetual bowl of goldfishies and/or whole grain crackers are a thing of the past.

    Josh-10/1/87, Brittany 3/9/91, Mandi 7/26/92, Michelle 9/11/06 image I'M GRAPE JELLY- ALWAYS AROUND & ALWAYS THE SAME If I leave here tomorrow, would you still remember me. For I must be traveling on now. Because there are too many places I've got to see. -Allen Collins & Ronnie VanZant My favorite verse!
  • That's horrible. I thought DS was bad. Wow. Ditto Dande. It's really hard to have a picky eater, but surely the parents could do better than Cheetos.
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    Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
    "Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
  • I'm sorry, but I'm totally stuck on making their cereal with whipped topping instead of milk. Whipped topping like cool whip? That is disgusting.
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    Annelise 3.22.2007 Norah 10.24.2009 Amelia 8.7.2011
  • Take out the whipped topping and add in taquitos and you have another family I know. It makes me so sad.
  • The snacking is such a big culprit when it comes to "bad" diets. I monitor their snacks pretty closely otherwise they won't eat their meals. Dinner is the biggest one because that's when they get the chunk of their veggies, protein etc. So they are allowed a snack after school then nothing until dinner time.  After dinner if they want a snack they can have a banana, apple or some other fruit but no chips, crackers etc. My DS would snack all day and night if he could so I have to be careful with him.
  • Are we related?

    My cousin has 2 daughters, they are 10 and 11, both very overweight and have food issues.

    Daughter #1 has a diet like your nieces'. Cheetos, Fritos, Doritos (if it ends in -itos she eats it), donuts, chocolate milk, soda, cakes, Twinkies, Pop-Tarts. It's foul. She eats lots of cheese but I've never seen her touch a vegetable. Ever. And my cousin has only enabled this by bringing whatever this DD eats wherever they go. We invited them to Easter dinner and she brought along Cheetos, hot dogs, and something else for her 11-year-old to eat! 

    Daughter #2 eats CONSTANTLY. "I'm hungry" is every other statement out of her mouth. Yes, she'll eat veggies and dip, or fruit, unlike her older sister... but she just eats all. the. time. Spend 2 hours at their house and she'll eat 8 or 9 snacks... no kidding.

    And as they get older, their self-esteem decreases. They get it now. They're bigger than most kids. They shop in the "pretty plus" section--or the older one sometimes has to go with Women's sizes. And they have no education on how they can turn things around.

    Mom to J (10), L (4), and baby #3 arriving in July of 2015
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