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won't be doing IVF this year

Mrs.AmandaMqnMrs.AmandaMqn
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I have had the worst weekend.

We've been waiting on all the finances to come together before our IVF in June/July but it's not happening. We simply can't do it right now and it's killing me.

all I want to do is cry.

TTC since April 2008

Me: PCOS/Amenorrhea DH: Azoospermia due to Y Chromosome Micro Deletion IVF w/ ICSI on hold until further notice

Hope

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  • jkmcnamarajkmcnamara
    I am so, so sorry. That's awful!
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  • newsbabynewsbaby
    Oh no I am so sorry. Hopefully things will turn around for you. HUGS.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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  • madelyn07madelyn07 member
    I'm sorry...that must be so tough. :(
    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

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  • cara-n-stevecara-n-steve member
    I'm so sorry sweetie.
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  • onedaychristinakonedaychristinak
    So sorry hun.  Wouldn't it be great if there was a way for ALL states to have coverage on IF issues?  Ughh!!  It's just not fair.  ((hugs))
    After DX- IF 1996-16 years old; IVF 1 5/2009 BFP! ;MC- 8 W6d- 6/2009
    DX w/ Protein S Deficiency and unexplained thin lining
    Multiple D&C's, Hysterscopy for removal of Scar Tissue, Endometrial Biopsy, 3 BFN FETs, including a year of cancelled due to lining issues (ranging 4.5 to 6.4),
    Procedure of arcuate uterus, Shocking lining development...9.2.
    Moved on to adoption 3/2011
    Homestudy approved! 6/27/2011
    Forever matched! 7/17/2012
    Precious baby boy born 7/30/2012
    SAIF & PAIF Always Welcome
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    I'm so sorry dear.  I hope you and DH are able to make things come together financially in the near future.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • Yellow_DaisyYellow_Daisy
    I'm so sorry!  After being on a 2 yr savings break I know just how hard it is to wait and it just sucks!  I'm really sorry that you have to wait.  (((hugs)))
    TTC since 8/2004
    Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
    DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
    DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
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  • nina&mattnina&matt member
    Aww I'm so sorry sweetie. I wish there was something I could do. :(
    TTC# 1 Since 10/2005----Diagnosed with PCOS March of 2006
    multiple failed cycles, multiple IUIs, lap with ovarian drilling 4/2008
    Finally BFP on 11/23/09 beta#1=36 beta#2 =62 beta#3=139
    Liliana was born on March 27,2010 at 21w5d due to infection and pre-term labor
    BFP #2 on 6/20/10 after Gonal-F and TI First u/s showed Twins! 
    TTC#2 since 02/2012 with out RE... 
    Back to RE 08/2016----- Cycle #1 10/2016 Femara 7.5mg=???
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    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • gidgegidge member
    I'm so sorry, Amanda!  ((((hugs))))
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  • bodybuilderswifebodybuilderswife
    I'm so sorry :(
    Adopting after multiple rounds of fertility meds and 3 failed IUI's
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  • BMWwifeBMWwife
    I am so sorry to hear this. I dont know if its an option for you or not, but yesterday someone posted about the CADE foundation. They are doing grants for IVF. Maybe you could try apply for a grant.
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  • KiKiGeeKiKiGee

    I am so sorry.  It is so frustrating that money has to play such a huge role in the desire to parent . . .

    I'm sorry.

    Our IVF Miracle Arrived 2.26.11! <a href="http://s790.photobucket.com/albums/yy188/KikiGee/?action=view
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  • Praying4#2Praying4#2

    Oh I'm so sorry nothing but hugs for you. Hopefully you will soon have a plan again, the cost of If treatments are just so unbelievable.

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  • musubigirlmusubigirl member

    I'm so sorry.  Is there a clinical trial you might qualify for?  Not sure if it would help out.

     https://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT00985218?term=ivf+and+texas&rank=9

    SAIFW
    PCOS diagnosis~can't remember how many years ago
    Several cycles of Clomid with OBGYn ~BFNs
    11-09 Initial Consult with RE
    12-09 Changed to a different RE
    1-2010 CCT-BFN
    2-2010 Rest Cycle, Waiting for AF..where are yOU?
    3.5.2010 RE found a cyst....Rest another month
    3.12.10 AF
    3.13.10 Cyst still there....on BCP until next month
    4.10.10 Starting Lupron/Gonal-F/Luveris
    April 2010 IVF #1 ~ BFP
    5.5.10 Beta #1~150
    5.7.19 Beta #2~300
    5.19.10 1st u/s 2 sacs~~
    5.25.10 2nd u/s 2 heartbeats~twins
    EDD 1.12.11
    Delivered on 11.28.10 due to HELLP syndrome at 33w 4days
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    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
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  • mrslovebugmrslovebug
    I'm sorry, sweetie.  ((Hugs))
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  • Sunshine05Sunshine05 member
    I'm sorry, Amanda!  I hope something comes through and you're able to find a way to make it happen.  Being on long breaks like this suck big-time.  :(
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  • nikinikininenikinikinine member
    I'm so sorry.
    It's Always Something
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  • thewormstheworms member

    i'm sorry cutie, it just sucks.

    praying you fall into some money soon and can do IVF.  if I hit the mega millions, I got you covered.

    ((HUGS))

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
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  • missred75missred75 member
    I'm so sorry, hun. ::hugs::
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  • scooterqscooterq member
    I am so sorry! 
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  • psychgalbridepsychgalbride member
    I am so sorry.  Keep hopeful that some windfall will come your way.  ((hugs))  I hate being OOP. 
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  • ch_bridech_bride
    I'm soooo sorry to hear that.  ((hugs))
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  • patchen30patchen30 member
    I am so sorry ((hugs)).  I know it hurts now, but just try and think that in the long run it won't matter if your baby was conceived in July '10 or Jan. '11. 

    TTC in 2008. Stage II/III endo, Hashimotos hypothyroid, low morph (3%).
    2 cycles Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/Crinone=BFN.
    IUI #1 - 4 Follistim/Ovidrel/IUI/Crinone = BFN.
    IVF #1 - Antagonist w/ ICSI 4/10. 17 retrieved, 5DT of 2, BFN :(
    IVF #2 - Long Lupron w/ ICSI 6/10. 15 retrieved, 3DT of 2, BFFN!!
    Lap 7/21/10
    IVF #3 - Clomid/Antagonist w/ ICSI 10/10. 14 retreived, 3DT of 3, BFP 10/20 but m/c. No HB 11/15/10 - D&C 11/17/10.
    FET - 2 blasts, 1 survived the thaw. Transfer 2/19. Beta #1 3/1 375, Beta #2 3/3 885, Beta #3 3/8 4261, Beta #4 3/11 9005. U/S 3/8 1 sac 1 yolk, U/S 3/16 1 heartbeat 114bpm!

     

    James born Oct. 24th 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks!

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    Surprise BFP - Jack born April 28, 2013 via VBAC after PTL at 33 1/2 weeks!

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  • DrVWifeDrVWife member
    I'm sorry.  Hugs.
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  • PoeticJusticePoeticJustice
    ((HUGS)) Sweetie
    May 06: Natural PG= m/c, July 09: TI= m/c, November 09: TI=BFN, December 09: IUI= c/p
    IVF#1: start stims 1/26; ER 2/8; ET 2/13= BFN; FET#1: May 2010= m/c *NEW CLINIC Jan 2011* IVF#2: start stims 1/12; ER 1/22; ET 1/27= BFN; IVF#3: TBD
    ~SAIFW/PAIFW~
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  • mieslmiesl member

    *hugs*  I know that feeling - it sucks so so much.

    Husband has cystic fibrosis. I'm a carrier. We did TESE, IVF, ICSI, and PGD. After two failed IVFs, we were blessed with our twins.

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
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  • flutterby918flutterby918
    I am so sorry. IF is so hard! (((HUGS)))
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

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    TTC Since Dec 2006
    *IVF #1 cancelled at ET*
    *IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
    *FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
    *Lap April 2010, removed endometrioma/endo implants*
    *Surprise BFP June 2010*
    *Beautiful daughter born 2/14/11!!*
    Thoughts from an Overwrought Mind
    SAIFW
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