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Those "First Tri Fail" badges are officially the dumbest thing...

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in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I have ever seen on this site. And hot damn is that saying something.

What a rebel you are, you ate deli meat! Quick, someone call the sheriff, we've got some renegade preggers over here! Who knows what trouble they might get into? I bet they even sipped a beer. ZOMG!

I'm a first trimester failure too. As in, I didn't graduate from the first trimester because my babies died. Still think that's such a clever little thing?

What a bunch of effing morons. No one cares if you drank a Coke. Bragging about it does not exactly make you seem mature or intelligent.

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Re: Those "First Tri Fail" badges are officially the dumbest thing...

  • jen629jen629 member
    I agree!
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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member

    There is nothing I hate more on 1st than people bragging about the risky stuff they do (whether it's risky or not).  

    Remember the chick bragging about having gone on a roller coaster at 10w? 

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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    imageBBHME:

    There is nothing I hate more on 1st than people bragging about the risky stuff they do (whether it's risky or not).  

    Remember the chick bragging about having gone on a roller coaster at 10w? 

    Oh hell, that one was classic.

    Here's the thing: eat deli meat. Eat brie. I don't think it matters, quite honestly.

    But seriously. Oh, what a badass you are. A hot dog. Wow. Someone keep an eye on this one.

     

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  • kew243kew243 member
    seriously??  there are badges?  Wow!  Talk about fail!  If they failed then I guess I dropped out?!?!
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  • Ashley858Ashley858 member
    I completely agree I hate those effing badges. No hun you did not fail the first tri. You made it out and still have a baby. Douche!!
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I hate those badges.

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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    **adding this to the list of why I don't go to the tri boards.

    ugh.

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  • frogyiefrogyie
    I agree. 
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    really? wow, I have no words
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member

    I never understood what they meant, how stupid. 

    Damn breeders.

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  • ShemicoShemico member
    I agree.
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    that's what those mean? I never knew. one of the most ignorant things ever.
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I noticed those badges but I couldn't figure out what they meant Embarrassed. Now I see how stupid they are.

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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member
    imageambrandau2:

    Here's the thing: eat deli meat. Eat brie. I don't think it matters, quite honestly.

    But seriously. Oh, what a badass you are. A hot dog. Wow. Someone keep an eye on this one.

     

    No. Friggin'.  Lie. 

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  • HeatherPB1020HeatherPB1020 member
    I agree
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  • BabyMimiBabyMimi
    Ugh. That is in such poor taste. 
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    Agreed....
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  • PeetiePiePeetiePie
    Hmm, making a badge is a little much.  However, I do pride myself on doing whatever the hell I want during the 2ww. 
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  • michroccmichrocc member
    imageBBHME:

    There is nothing I hate more on 1st than people bragging about the risky stuff they do (whether it's risky or not).  

    Remember the chick bragging about having gone on a roller coaster at 10w? 

    I went to a party last weekend and there was this woman who was 10 wks pg.  Drinking beer and smoking cigs.  Someone asked her why and she said "I just don't think this pg should make it so I can't do the things I want to do." 

    Setting aside the topic of what's risky and what isn't, it all just strikes me as so arrogant.  These women are just so sure that nothing will go wrong that the thought that something could doesn't even enter their minds...it really bothers me.  There's just not even the slightest bit of room, amongst all that entitlement, for things like self-awareness. 

     

     

     

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  • rjl07rjl07
    Um the first thing I thought when I saw your subject line was that it was a really weird way of showing you had a loss in your siggy.  I can't believe what they actually mean.  100% most ridiculous thing ever. 
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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    imagemichrocc:
    imageBBHME:

    I went to a party last weekend and there was this woman who was 10 wks pg.  Drinking beer and smoking cigs.  Someone asked her why and she said "I just don't think this pg should make it so I can't do the things I want to do." 

    I don't think her pregnancy should make it so you can't do the things you want to do.  Like beat the crap out of her.

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  • momagain2009momagain2009 member
    I haven't seen these and I hope I never do.  That is sooo beyond stupid.
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  • buckinbuckin
    Completely Agree.
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  • mrstyson03mrstyson03
    imagemlmtgg:

    **adding this to the list of why I don't go to the tri boards.

    ugh.

    This!

     

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  • kathi512kathi512 member
    imagemichrocc:

    I went to a party last weekend and there was this woman who was 10 wks pg.  Drinking beer and smoking cigs.  Someone asked her why and she said "I just don't think this pg should make it so I can't do the things I want to do." 

    Setting aside the topic of what's risky and what isn't, it all just strikes me as so arrogant.  These women are just so sure that nothing will go wrong that the thought that something could doesn't even enter their minds...it really bothers me.  There's just not even the slightest bit of room, amongst all that entitlement, for things like self-awareness. 

     

    The sad thing is that people like this go on to have healthy babies. It's so frustrating. While the rest of us do everything by the book & still have things go wrong. WTF!
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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member

    imageKathi512:
    The sad thing is that people like this go on to have healthy babies. It's so frustrating. While the rest of us do everything by the book & still have things go wrong. WTF!

    Although for the record, I would put forth that "by the book" sucks because it tries to establish for a woman that there's some power she has over a pregnancy being successful or unsuccessful.  The BOOK instills some artificial control over the outcome of her pregnancy.  Those who buck the system see themselves as rogue, when, in fact, THE BOOK IS ABSOLUTE AND UTTER BULLSH!T.

    We have no control.  None.  We can do our best and abide the book's suggestions, but none of that is going to guarantee us a healthy baby. 

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  • michroccmichrocc member
    imagegrr_aargh:

    imageKathi512:
    The sad thing is that people like this go on to have healthy babies. It's so frustrating. While the rest of us do everything by the book & still have things go wrong. WTF!

    Although for the record, I would put forth that "by the book" sucks because it tries to establish for a woman that there's some power she has over a pregnancy being successful or unsuccessful.  The BOOK instills some artificial control over the outcome of her pregnancy.  Those who buck the system see themselves as rogue, when, in fact, THE BOOK IS ABSOLUTE AND UTTER BULLSH!T.

    We have no control.  None.  We can do our best and abide the book's suggestions, but none of that is going to guarantee us a healthy baby. 

    So wise.  I'm beginning to recognize this and internalize it.  It's really hard to let go of the self-blame I've been wallowing in of late. 

    Thank you for this. 

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