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Officially the only stupid infertile in DH's family...

Scout05Scout05 member
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The last holdout cousin just sent us an invite for her baby shower.

I went to their wedding a year ago.

I am going to go drink heavily now. I claim no responsiblity for anything else I say today.

(Just so you understand, that makes 8 super fertiles to one habitual aborter. Good pickin', DH).

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  • ihearteddiebooihearteddieboo
    I have no words.  ((hugs))
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    Giant hugs.
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  • jen629jen629 member
    {{{{HUGS}}}}
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  • Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    (( Big Hugs ))

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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I'm so sorry. That sucks. ((hugs))

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  • iammadiammad

    I'm sorry...((hugs))

     

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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    I'm sorry Allison. That stinks! (((HUGS)))
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so sorry Allison.
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  • BeachColeBeachCole
    Huge hugs, Allison. I'm so sorry.
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I literally dropped it and went "damn it!" when I opened the envelope and have been glaring at it since then. Stupid cute announcements. Stupid infertility.

    :::drags out blender and starts making margaritas:::

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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    (((hugs))) I am sorry.  That's like a knife to the heart.
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  • alittleglowingfriendalittleglowingfriend
    (((HUGS))) I understand... Im the only infertile in my family too!!

    Chemical Pregnancy in 2004. BFP #1 on 9-26-2009 * MC on 10-2-2009 @ 6w DX with PCOS and Started Clomid C#1 @ 100mg 4-12-2010. BFP #2 on 5-6-2010 * Beta #1 - 41 @ 12dpo * Beta #2 - 256 @ 15dpo Saw HP 126bpm - 5/27/10 Asher arrived on 1-13-2011
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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member
    I feel you, Allison. I'm the only married girl cousin not to give birth in 2009/2010. ON BOTH SIDES (mine & DH's)!
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • jesmckennajesmckenna member

    I'm so sorry.  Life just really blows sometimes.

    If it makes you feel any better- I have over 20 female cousins and I'm not only the only one on both sides who has had miscarriages, but also one of about 5 who hasn't gotten knocked up by a random boyfriend.  I just don't get it.

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  • marisslynmarisslyn
    I am so sorry. Ughh...
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    That just sucks.  Enjoy your drinks, I will be joining you.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) so sorry.No one on either side has had a loss and they all get healthy babies. I have been feeling even worse lately because dh's cousin also did ivf and they had their boy/girl twins at full term and are doing great. I feel like I let dh down.

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  • far_more_than_rubiesfar_more_than_rubies

    I was reading too fast and thought you were getting out the bledner to destroy the invite:)

     

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