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what a morning! (babies mentioned)

writergirl5786writergirl5786 member
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on Tuesday mornings for my work, i'm in the church nursery (0-8 months) during the mom's study. i love it. but it's definitely been dificult since the m/c.

and of course, this morning...one volunteer walks up and goes, "so you've been married a year now?" and i'm like "yup" and she goes "soooo when are you having kids?!!" and i'm like "well we're hoping it's soon!" most ppl know about my m/c but some don't...obviously.

then another volunteer who helps in my room with the 12 babies under 8 months (who knows about the m/c, was actually serving with me the week it happened when i was bawling while holding babies) just looked at me holding a little 7 wk old angel and says "this is so natural and perfect for you. you will be a beautiful wonderful mama"

sighs...soon, we will all be beautiful wonderful mama's with our wonderful amazing forever babies. i can't wait for that day my dears!

ps..to end the nursery session, i got puked on. and now i'm stuck at work all day with a spit up shirt. sighs. spit up is not cute when it's not your own kids'. :P

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  • jen629jen629 member
    I am sorry:(
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  • Olive44Olive44 member
    imagewritergirl5786:

    on Tuesday mornings for my work, i'm in the church nursery (0-8 months) during the mom's study. i love it. but it's definitely been dificult since the m/c.

    and of course, this morning...one volunteer walks up and goes, "so you've been married a year now?" and i'm like "yup" and she goes "soooo when are you having kids?!!" and i'm like "well we're hoping it's soon!" most ppl know about my m/c but some don't...obviously.

    then another volunteer who helps in my room with the 12 babies under 8 months (who knows about the m/c, was actually serving with me the week it happened when i was bawling while holding babies) just looked at me holding a little 7 wk old angel and says "this is so natural and perfect for you. you will be a beautiful wonderful mama"

    sighs...soon, we will all be beautiful wonderful mama's with our wonderful amazing forever babies. i can't wait for that day my dears!

    ps..to end the nursery session, i got puked on. and now i'm stuck at work all day with a spit up shirt. sighs. spit up is not cute when it's not your own kids'. :P

    I love your positive attitude!  I totally agree!

    Sorry about the spit up :(

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  • tripplaartripplaar member
    That makes me want to cry, not the spit up part. I was just telling a coworker something similar today. One day we will look back and say everything we've done TTC was worth it.
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    I know that must be difficult but you're right you will have your sticky baby soon. hugs.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • writergirl5786writergirl5786 member
    some mornings are definitely harder than others. but i love it. and it does confirm in me that this is what i was made to do/be.
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    :(  Im sorry
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  • nurseJKnurseJK member
    Especially when it is someone else's kid that is breastfed...
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  • butterfly843butterfly843

    I think it is amazing that you have such a positive attitude and you are able to help out with all these babies. I don't think I could bring myself to do it right now.

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