Do you get out of the house everyday? or even every other day? I feel like I really need to get out of the house more, for my sanitys sake, but its just so much work to get both kids and myself ready to go. I dont have the energy at all. Im starting to go a little stir crazy though, and everything I read says its important to get out.
Just curious how often all of you get out, and where do you go if you get out everyday?
Re: SAHMs.... Do you get out everyday?
(not a SAHM but on mat leave for a year) I try to get out every day. Walks around the neighborhood or on the local trails, mall visits if weather is bad, or a moms-group gtg
I only have both boys 2 day a week (D goes to daycare & ILs the other days), but on those days, we stay home - I am still not brave enough to go out in public with both kids. Sometimes I take the boys outside to play in our yard, but I usually just wait until DH gets home to do even that, because Wes cries every time we go outside and D takes off running and I get all frazzled when I'm alone with them.
But on the days when it's just Wes and me, I get out about 50% of the time to run errands. The other days I catch up on sleep and cleaning, LOL.
We don't get out every day but we do try to get out of the house whenever possible. What I try to do is plan my week out... for example, if I know that I have something to buy at BRU and some dry cleaning to pick up, plus grocery shopping, I will split these errands over the course of three days, rather than try to do it all at once, just so I have something to look forward to (sad but true!).
We go for walks when the weather's nice, or head to the mall for indoor walking. We also go to the library for books and do little errands at Target and BRU. We have a mommy group to go to twice a month (I wish it was more frequent!).
Yes, we get out of here every day. The weather has been perfect for about three weeks, so that really helps. We go to the playground, the library, the store, the mall, friends' houses, etc. Just anywhere. I have to break up the day like that or else DS1 would tear up the house in boredom and I'd spend all day correcting his behavior which would suck really hard.
It helps me to have a loose schedule:
7-9am hang out, watch cartoons, computer time for me, nap for the baby
9-9:30 breakfast
10am feed baby and get ready to leave the house
11am park, playground, running errands, whatever. Out of the house.
1pm lunch
2pm nap for both boys
2-4 sweet, sweet freedom for Mommy.
When DH comes home at 3:30, I hand the kids over to him and go for a walk by myself.
Yes. I might start clawing at the walls if I didnt! I like to have him out in the fresh air, unless its rainy or freezing.
I'd say we get out of the house 3-4 days a week.
Sometimes it's just a walk around the neighborhood. Other times we're running to the grocery store, post office, mall, or doing random errands. We do storytime at the library on Thursdays, or we go somewhere that DD1 can run around like a park or playground.
It takes so much longer with two to get out, though!
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010
Evelyn (3.24.10), Graham (5.30.13) & Miles (8.28.16)
We get out at least 3 days a week, because my DD has classes that many times LOL.
Other than that we go to the grocery store, Target, bookstore, story hour (for my DD) and Gymboree open gym (also for my DD).
One of my best friends just had a baby in December and went back to work part time, so she's now home on Mondays and Fridays and we get together quite a bit as well.
You should try looking for a moms group in your area!