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BM Didn't Pick Us

*Willis**Willis*
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We found out last night.  We were pretty bummed, but know the right BM and the right baby will find us.

I'm still hopeful my fortune cookie was right :).  Thanks for the good thoughts ladies. 

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  • crystalpopcorncrystalpopcorn member
    I'm sorry to hear that.  You are right though.  Your baby is out there.  That knowledge doesn't make it any easier though. :( Hugs!
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  • Dragonfly_BrideDragonfly_Bride member

    Oh, I'm sorry :(

    **hugs**

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  • Go_DawgsGo_Dawgs member
    I'm sorry :(
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  • candmcandm
    I'm sorry. Hugs.
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  • mom2embmom2emb member
    So sorry!
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  • rwunderlich13rwunderlich13
    sorry....sent you a PM
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  • QuiltingBeeQuiltingBee

    Hi Willis...I hope you don't mind me posting here (I usually post on IF but lurk here for info, etc).

    I'm sorry that the BM didn't pick you, but I know your child is out there...hopefully he/she finds you soon!   

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  • mcmann05mcmann05 member
    Well that plain stinks, I'm sorry! :-( Your baby will find you.
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  • Art TeacherArt Teacher
    Oh, I'm so sorry.  Hope you're doing okay and hope your baby finds you soon :)
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  • Amy720Amy720
    I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.  All the ladies are right though. When the baby that is meant for you comes along, it will happen just like it's supposed too.  Hugs to you!
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  • redhead1214redhead1214
    I'm so sorry. Hang in there.
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  • so1966so1966

    so sorry (((HUGS))). it must be hard.... 

     i do hope your baby does find you very soon.

     

    After 7 years of marriage and 5 unsuccessful IVFs, we have been granted the gift of adopting a baby boy, born 4/21/11.
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  • katerenakaterena
    So sorry, that must sting  Big hugs to you!!!!
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  • *Willis**Willis*
    imageQuiltingBee:

    Hi Willis...I hope you don't mind me posting here (I usually post on IF but lurk here for info, etc).

    I'm sorry that the BM didn't pick you, but I know your child is out there...hopefully he/she finds you soon!   

    Are you kidding me?  I love when my infert gals follow me over and post here :).   

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  • kmkaull2kmkaull2 member
    Big hugs . . . stay strong.  It WILL happen.
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  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member
    I'm so sorry. I hope your child comes to you soon.
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  • PSU-NCBridePSU-NCBride
    Sounds like you have a good attitude about it. I took the first "rejections" quite hard but looking back on it... obviously things happen the way they are supposed to. Good luck as you keep getting into the process. PM me if you need any help with any of the facilitator stuff. 
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  • waxboydwaxboyd
    I'm so sorry. We have been through that dozens of times and I know it is a heartbreaker. I got to a point where I didn't want to know we were being shown because I got so anxious!! :) Then when we decided we were going international that last "not matched" call a relief to me, knowing we were doing the right thing. :):)
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  • str8otastr8ota member
    I'm sorry ::hugs::
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  • PhiPrincessPhiPrincess

    Awww Willis.  I'm so sorry hun.  Sad

    Big hugs!

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  • GLynn2009GLynn2009
    Sorry
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  • LadyRed7LadyRed7

    I'm so sorry. You are right and have such a great attitude!

    Good thoughts still coming your way for a short wait. 

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