So 4th IUI BFN. I can't tell you how upset I am. I had to come into work and I am trying to hold it together. I also had a RE date today and our option is Invetro or adoption. The last couple of months I was so sure that I didn't want to waste any more time with all the treatments. But today on my way back to work I realized that I want to give DH and I the chance to have our own. I want to carry our child for 9 months! I know you all understand. I felt horrible having to call DH and drop all of this on him at work (thank goodness he owns his own companyand he could take a break).I feel like a failure as a wife and a woman. The RE suggested that we do 2 more months of IUI but finacialy we need to take a break. So for the next couple of months I am goinfg to take my Fomara and we will try naturaly. Then its on to some mad money saving for invetro!!!
Now the vent!
If I hear one more time...Just relax this month. Take it easy. Your to busy. I think your running to much. You always have something going on. Well, I am sorry if my best friends are getting married or having babies! I am sorry that every now and then my husband and I like to have a BBQ and invite our friends over! I have a medical condition that is keeping me from getting pregnant! ITS NOT BECAUSE I HAVE A LIFE!!!! Geezzz......
Sorry its so long! Thanks for listening guys! You have no idea how much you keep me going. I know I am fairly new but you all understand!!
Re: IUI# 4 BFN....Vent!!!
im so sorry to hear about your BFN and I hope you get to do your IVF soon!
Also- I have to throat-punch people who tell me to "relax".....
Don't apologize for venting....I did it twice today on here. Hang in there, and yes, we understand...GL.
C/P- at 6 weeks
5 IUI's= BFN
Dx: Endo stage 1 : evevated FSH (11.3)
IVF#1: 3dt 2 8 cell, grade 1 embyos :bfn
*(P)SAIFW*
~A lotus springs from mud~ Chinese proverb
PAIFW/SAIFW
DS1 born July 2002 (previous marriage).
TTC since Oct 08. DH Dx w/testicular cancer March 09.
MFI due to retrograde ejaculation/azoospermia.
5/2 IVF #1 cancelled due to large follie.
6/14 start Lupron for IVF #1.2. 6/22 start stims.
7/4 ER and Biopsy.
7/9 Transferred 2 (1-4BB and 1-3BB) embryos. 4 frosties.
7/15 +HPT 6dp5dt. 7/18 Beta #1: 193. 7/20 Beta #2: 415.
8/10 1st u/s - It's triplets!
I'm so sorry......
some people just need a good ole throat punch!
Thank you IVF for our little miracles!!
I'm sorry about your BFN.
My co-worker tells me DH and I need to go on vacation. Yeah, thanks for the great idea!
I'm so sorry to hear about the BFN! ((HUGS!)).
And I am with you...the relaxing comment makes me cringe each time!
7lbs 13oz 20 inches long
I'm also sorry about your BFN. People don't get that by telling someone to just "relax and take it easy," that they are basically saying its your fault that you haven't gotten pregnant yet. At least, that is how I take it.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do and keep us posted!