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IUI# 4 BFN....Vent!!!

So 4th IUI BFN. I can't tell you how upset I am. I had to come into work and I am trying to hold it together. I also had a RE date today and our option is Invetro or adoption. The last couple of months I was so sure that I didn't want to waste any more time with all the treatments. But today on my way back to work I realized that I want to give DH and I the chance to have our own. I want to carry our child for 9 months! I know you all understand. I felt horrible having to call DH and drop all of this on him at work (thank goodness he owns his own companyand he could take a break).I feel like a failure as a wife and a woman. The RE suggested that we do 2 more months of IUI but finacialy we need to take a break. So for the next couple of months I am goinfg to take my Fomara and we will try naturaly. Then its on to some mad money saving for invetro!!!

 Now the vent!

If I hear one more time...Just relax this month. Take it easy. Your to busy. I think your running to much. You always have something going on. Well, I am sorry if my best friends are getting married or having babies! I am sorry that every now and then my husband and I like to have a BBQ and invite our friends over! I have a medical condition that is keeping me from getting pregnant! ITS NOT BECAUSE I HAVE A LIFE!!!! Geezzz......

 Sorry its so long! Thanks for listening guys! You have no idea how much you keep me going. I know I am fairly new but you all understand!!

Re: IUI# 4 BFN....Vent!!!

  • im so sorry to hear about your BFN and I hope you get to do your IVF soon!

    Also- I have to throat-punch people who tell me to "relax"..... 

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  • Don't apologize for venting....I did it twice today on here.  Hang in there, and yes, we understand...GL.

  • I'm really sorry:(. Have you talked about injectables?
    Natural BFP on 3/08
    C/P- at 6 weeks
    5 IUI's= BFN
    Dx: Endo stage 1 : evevated FSH (11.3)
    IVF#1: 3dt 2 8 cell, grade 1 embyos :bfn


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  • I'm sorry this cycle didn't work. 

                          

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    MFI due to retrograde ejaculation/azoospermia.
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    6/14 start Lupron for IVF #1.2. 6/22 start stims.
    7/4 ER and Biopsy.
    7/9 Transferred 2 (1-4BB and 1-3BB) embryos.  4 frosties.
    7/15 +HPT 6dp5dt. 7/18 Beta #1: 193. 7/20 Beta #2: 415.
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  • I'm so sorry......

    some people just need a good ole throat punch!

  • I'm so sorry ((hugs)). And I hate when others have advice to offer and have no idea what they are talking about. Being less busy does not make a medical condition go away.
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  • I'm so sorry about the bfn. I hate all the comments people say. In their heads they think they are helping - but they have no clue what is going on.
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  • I'm sorry about your BFN.

    My co-worker tells me DH and I need to go on vacation. Yeah, thanks for the great idea!

    TTC since September 2007 Dx - Unexplained 4 Clomid cycles all BFNs clomid/hcg/IUI#1 - #6 BFN IVF #1 cancelled due to slight OHSS IVF #2 BFP 3/24!! C/P Clinical Trials start May 2012 IUI#1 - BFN IUI#2 - BFN IUI#3 -
  • I'm so sorry to hear about the BFN! ((HUGS!)).

     

    And I am with you...the relaxing comment makes me cringe each time!

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  • ((hugs)) i am so sorry!
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  • I'm also sorry about your BFN.  People don't get that by telling someone to just "relax and take it easy," that they are basically saying its your fault that you haven't gotten pregnant yet.  At least, that is how I take it.

    Good luck with whatever you decide to do and keep us posted!   

    TTC Child #1 Sept '08, Dx: Unexplained, DOR 2 IUI's = BFN, m/c, IVF 1 = 0 embies to put back, IVF 2 = BFN, IVF 3 = cancelled, IVF 4 = BFP with 1 embie. Our son came into our life on 9/28/11. We are in love! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm so sorry.  (((HUGS)))
  • Thanks guys for the support! LMAO on the Throat punch comments. I so needed that last night when I got home and read everyone's response. I had DH read your responses and he was flipped out when he saw that someone else always gets the take a vacation comment. LOL. He told me that he always answers with "you going to pay for it". Its a busy day at work today and one of my best friends is going to take me window antiuqe shopping tomorrow so I am just going to stay busy! Thanks guys!
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