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Having a hard time

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     This afternoon I am being discharged from the hospital.  They already let me stay an extra day than I needed since Natalie is here in the NICU.  I feel like I can't even do it, I am not strong enough emotionally to leave her here and go home without her.  I have been crying all day at the thought of leaving her, and it is something I have been dreading all week.  I have carried her inside me the past 7/8 months, and even the past few days she has only been down the hall.  Now she will be miles away.  And there is nothing I can do about it.  I feel so sick to my stomach.  I am just not sure how to deal with this.  I'm really struggling.
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  • popcorn13popcorn13 member
    Oh sweetie, hang in there.  I don't have experience with it but I can only imagine how hard it is.  I hope you get to enjoy some snuggly visit time with LO each day and that she gets to come home with you very soon!
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  • veryargylegirlveryargylegirl
    I am really sorry. I cannot imagine what you are going through.
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  • dkfitz07dkfitz07

    ((HUGS))

    Hang in there. I have no experience with that...but couldn't imagine leaving my little girl..

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  • eas15905eas15905
    I'm so sorry.  I have never been in that position and can't imagine what it would feel like.  Just know that they are keeping her safe and healthy so that she will be ready to come home with you. 
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  • MrsGhappilyeverafterMrsGhappilyeverafter
    I'm so sorry hun.  I can't imagine how hard that must be.  We're all here for you anytime you need to talk.  ((HUGS))
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  • jeffraejeffrae member
    I can't even imagine!  I am very sorry.  It will be hard.  But as hard as it is being away from her, know that she is in the best care for her right now.  Wishing you both a speedy recovery and her to be able to come home soon.
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  • Babs022Babs022 member
    huge hugs, i can't even imagine how hard this must be for you.
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  • Mrs. DissMrs. Diss
    I'm so sorry! ((BIG HUGS))
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  • mh2tmh2t
    I'm sorry.  I hope she gets to come home with you soon!
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  • MelissaAB5579MelissaAB5579 member
    I'm so sorry love! I can't imagine having to go through that. Like pp said just know she is in the best place--and hopefully she'll get to come home soon!
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