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Do you really need to rub them in public?

0danielle00danielle0 member
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So get this... We have some good friends who are also pregnant. Every time we hang out, baby daddy rubs up on baby mama's tatas. For example, we watched the UFC fights at a sports bar on Saturday night. Picture about 10 people standing in a circle saying "good night" to each other. Baby daddy proceeds to stand behind baby mama, reach around, and full-on massage her breasts. Yep. Grabbing and rubbing like he was kneading dough or something. He does it all the time, even when he's bone sober- at our house, in restaurants. It's just... weird. I'm all for a reasonable amount of public affection, but could you keep your boobie rubs to yourselves? K thanks! Stick out tongue
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  • Halen0804Halen0804 member
    Too creepy!  I'm all for hand holding, an occasional peck, ect.  Rubbing the boobs if definitely going too far. 
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  • eileen32eileen32
    Eeww!!Indifferent
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  • angiek941angiek941
    Yeah, that's just weird. 
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  • goosh24goosh24
    lol, this sounds pretty freaking weird.  what does everyone do while this is happening?
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  • NicoleR524NicoleR524 member
    That is WEIRD!
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  • claire1983claire1983 member
    Yuck, super awkward!
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  • jess60jess60 member

    Indifferent

    Wow.  Does anyone ever say something to him...or even to both of them about it?


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  • islandgirl79islandgirl79
    That is some really weird sh*t!!  I thought the post was going to be about BELLY rubbing, not boobie rubbing!  I think if I were there I would burst out laughing.
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  • AllieJeanAllieJean
    Thats disgusting. DH will sometimes rub the belly in public but thats a little different. He knows better than to cop a boob feel when other people are around i mean seriously we arent 17 anymore
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  • 0danielle00danielle0 member
    No one has ever said anything to them in front of me. There's no way I'm the only one who notices though. It's SO blatant. The weirdest thing is that she doesn't seem to mind. Indifferent
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  • paxilchykpaxilchyk member
    WEIRD!  I'm all for an occasional butt grab in public, but full on boob rubbing is out of the question!!
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    Surprise
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  • LaurelBeeLaurelBee member
    Maybe you or your H should go in for your own rub/squeeze of her tatas. Then maybe they'll realize how completely inappropriate/unusual that action is in public! 
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  • staci4477staci4477
    so inappropriate!!!!  it's equally creepy that she lets him do it!!
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  • shanadshanad

    imageeileen32:
    Eeww!!Indifferent

    This!!!

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  • nnbarrierennbarriere
    too funny!! not cute, but funny!
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  • dcunningham2dcunningham2 member
    thank you for this post. It is just cracking me up.
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  • redneckloverrednecklover member
    GROSS! Ick! That's so rude.  Keep that in your own home or better yet, the bedroom.  People these days...geez
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  • 0danielle00danielle0 member

    imageSpring Mommy:
    is this for real? do you seriously know a coupl that the husband massages his wife's breasts in public?? WHATTT HAHAHAHHAHA. this is just crazy. like in what context does he do this? is it a joke or a comfort thing? I cannnnnnnot imagine this happening to me! lol

    I'm dead serious. It seems sexual. Not like the occasional butt grab, which my DH does and I playfully swat away. With them, it doesn't seem like a joke. It seems just like if he were to rub her shoulders/back, but he's fully grabbing the flesh of her breasts and massaging them.

    I don't know... Indifferent I just had to share because I figured all you mamas-to-be would find it as odd/funny/random as I do. 

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  • Mrs VeitzMrs Veitz member
    ewwwwwwwwww!!!
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  • MWoodsideMWoodside member
    Umm that's REALLY weird.  And inappropriate.  I am against all PDA basically.

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  • anvloveskmeanvloveskme member

    imageislandgirl79:
    That is some really weird sh*t!!  I thought the post was going to be about BELLY rubbing, not boobie rubbing!  I think if I were there I would burst out laughing.

    This is exactly what I thought!  What the hell are they both thinking??  Even if DH wanted to do this, there is no way I would allow him to in public...ewww!!!

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  • bancbevbancbev member

    there is no way in hell that I would be able to keep my mouth shut.  I would have to say something to the effect of- Geez get a room!  You know we all can see you massaging her titties. 

    But I am klassy like that.

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  • Capricornbaby80Capricornbaby80
    Wow that is very inappropriate!!
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  • Laura0575Laura0575 member

    imageeileen32:
    Eeww!!Indifferent

    That is EXACTLY what I just said.

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  • S&V*A&F122009S&V*A&F122009
    Ummm...I would definitely had made a comment! Weird that "she" would be OK with him rubbing her tatas in public!
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  • willowcormarwillowcormar member
    Indifferent Boob rubbing goes WAY to far. ew.
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  • modechickmodechick member
    This story made me spit water across my desk.  The visual is priceless and hilarious.  With that said, who does that!?!  Highly inappropriate. 
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  • 0danielle00danielle0 member

    I'm usually not one to bite my tongue, but they seem so nonchalant about it that I don't know what to say. I just look away!


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    I *heart* this thread! 
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  • KRISTA555KRISTA555 member
    I bet he gets some sort of sexual gratification out of doing that in front of people.   I'd smack my hubby's hand if he did that in public!
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  • KRISTA555KRISTA555 member

    imagemodechick:
    This story made me spit water across my desk.  The visual is priceless and hilarious.  With that said, who does that!?!  Highly inappropriate. 

    I agree! It's so bizarre, that it sounds like a Saturday Night Live sketch.  I can just picture Will Ferrell being the guy. :P

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  • MKinney86MKinney86

    Massaging the boobies in the privacy of your own home, with no compnay over Yes

    Massaging the boobies in front of ANYONE else or in public Ick!No

    Yikes that would be uncomfortable. I saw a couple in their late 30's/early 40's groping eachother's..ahem..areas at the movie theater once and I just felt sooooo dirty and awkward. I'm all for spreading the love, just spread it all over your own space.

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  • 0danielle00danielle0 member

    I agree! It's so bizarre, that it sounds like a Saturday Night Live sketch.  I can just picture Will Ferrell being the guy. :P

    Yesss!! You just made my day. 

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