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Something is seriously wrong with me

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I'm sorry, I complain a lot. Please forgive me.  

My sister, who has struggled with IF for 2 years... She just called me. I didn't answer because I was napping. It's my big sister, I can't ignore her... So I called. "Oh so Steven and I are pregnant" Great. I'm really happy for her because she thought they wouldn't be able to have kids... but Really. She had an IUD. She's had it for a few months. Really. A fvcking IUD and she gets pregnant... she has an u/s in 2 weeks. I hope everything is great for her. But I'm bitter. I'm a bitter b!tch who can't have a baby. She and her husband haven't been getting along. She's been thinking of moving in with us. I bet everything is all better now. I want to be happy but all I can do is cry 

Crying 

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  • Clerk9Clerk9 member
    I'm so sorry.  I can't imagine what you're going through, but just wanted to give you {{big hugs}}.  
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  • jen629jen629 member
    oh man I am so sorry Val
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so sorry.  There is nothing wrong with you, these feelings are normal.  And there is no way that a baby is going to solve their problems, even if it seems to initially.
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  • lindsay.loulindsay.lou member

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

    Hugs. 

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  • Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    (( Big Hugs ))

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  • SonadoraSonadora member
    I think that's totally understandable. ::hugs::
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  • rjl07rjl07
    I'm sorry - that's a crappy situation and really bad timing for you to get that news.  There is nothing wrong with you either.  I'm pretty sure just about every one of us would have the same reaction.  ((hugs))
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    I'm so sorry.  I think your feelings are normal, though.  I would feel the same way.  It's a little hard to be happy for people, as much as we may want to.  ::hugs::
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) nothing is wrong with you I would want to cry also.

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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    Wow.  That is a awkward situation.  (((hugs)))  No need to apologize for complaining.  We'd all have the same reaction.
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  • BeachColeBeachCole
    Oh sweetheart. I am so sorry, as much as I know you want to be happy for her - it sounds like a frustrating situation with how it happened. You are allowed to be as bitter and as b!tchy as you want. And we will be here to listen and support anything you need to vent about. Big big hugs to you.
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  • sciteach104sciteach104
    i'm so sorry hon! i feel so bad you are going through this.  big hugs to you.
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  • vflipovflipo member
    Thanks ladies. I really don't know what I would do without you. My other sister who I love so much says she's so glad that I have you guys because she doesn't know what to do or say. I love love love you all. Now that I'm done crying and I've eaten this ice cream samitch despite my stomach ache, it's time to face the world again and go to class. I hate dealing with real life.
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  • TeacherVickyTeacherVicky member

    I'm so sorry, that is so difficult. I was just told almost 2 weeks ago by my sister that she was pg... who also doesn't have the best relationship with her SO.

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  • seasidebride05seasidebride05 member
    I am so sorry--that is tough to have to go through.
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  • Danie.TDanie.T
    Oh god that has got to be hard. Lots and lots of hugs.
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