ok so i know bumpers are always a hot topic and the general opinion seems to be NO bumpers but i wanted to see what you gals did/are doing...
we just moved LO from cradle to crib....and we went without bumpers BUT about an hour after putting her down she was crying b/c she had gotten her foot somewhat caught b/w the rails. So....now I'm kind of thinking i would like the bumpers up.
what have you guys done? no bumpers ever? bumpers when they got more mobile? waited until older and not as concerned about SIDS? any input would be appreciated
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Re: can we talk bumpers....
Breathable bumpers....love them!
We moved E to the crib at 6 months and went out and bought them by the end of the first week because she loves to be pressed up against the side of the crib and kept getting an arm stuck.
I may be in the minority, but we've used the bumpers from day 1. I've never been concerned about them and they've never caused a problem.
We still swaddle her, so she hasn't had an opportunity to bang into the rails or get her foot stuck. I don't think we'll be using the bumpers at all, though. We're at the point now where I'd be worried about her standing on them.
I had a bumper, all my friends and family used bumpers and I am not really worried about it being a SIDs risk, since I feel that SIDs has more to do with a brain malfunction then because of bumpers etc.
They do have "breathable" bumpers that people use that are thinner as well.
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We have regular bumpers. Paige was in our room (pack n play, swing, or our bed) until 6 months. I didn't move her to her crib until I was confident she was safe.
Now, she uses them as a body pillow!
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This for us as well. Plus, DS is a complete wild man when he sleeps and I'm more concerned with him smashing is head on the bars and getting his foot caught in between.
I'm a stickler for the SIDS prevention guidelines so we've never used a bumper. However, H is really mobile in the crib now and getting his leg caught between the rails a lot, so we may add a breathable one soon.
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We used breathable bumper from BRU. Problem solved and no worries.
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I would never use a standard "old school" bumper. I would find ginny smashed up against the sides all the time. the risk of suffocation was WAY too high for my comfort level.
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This. We didn't move L to her crib until 6 months, but we used a bumper as soon as we moved her. She is wild when she sleeps and needs the padding.
We use (and always have used) the cutesy bumpers that came with our bedding set. DS slept in a crib without bumpers once and wedged his head so hard in a corner that it bruised. Breathable bumpers wouldn't have prevented it.
On the list of big bad baby things to be afraid of, bumpers just don't rank very high for me.
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