Last night there was a post about how someone lurked over on 1st tri and discoverd that all the things we 'shouldn't' be doing ie drink, eat deli meat, sushi, spray tan etc....we've all done at some point and we were joking how we were first tri failures!
it's funny because my grandma was joking around saying how much she smoked and drank when she was pregnant with my mom and her sisters and they are all fine!!! now we are all so consumed over what not to do that it basically drives us nuts! whats meant to be, will be! some people smoke crack their entire pregnancy and have healthy babies, some women follow these "rules" to a tee and their babies may have some problems! bottom line, we are all human and we will love our babies no matter what! if you need that shot of coffee to get you going, have it!
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Its amazing how in first tri all us "new" moms are so paranoid and want everything PERFECT and so we shouldnt do this or that..it rarely lasts, the girls will learn
Last night a woman in 1st tri came over to ask a question and mentioned a list of things she doesnt do/eat/drink because it could be harmful. Her post quickly spun off a post about being a bad momma and all the 1st tri fails that poster has done. It basically is saying I eat deli meat/sushi/drink caffeine... all those things that in 1st tri we all heard being bad for a pregnant woman but have since realized its not about elimination but moderation.
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it's funny because my grandma was joking around saying how much she smoked and drank when she was pregnant with my mom and her sisters and they are all fine!!! now we are all so consumed over what not to do that it basically drives us nuts! whats meant to be, will be! some people smoke crack their entire pregnancy and have healthy babies, some women follow these "rules" to a tee and their babies may have some problems! bottom line, we are all human and we will love our babies no matter what! if you need that shot of coffee to get you going, have it!
Mikaela is going to have a little brother!