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My SIL is on to me ALREADY!

Jenny102783Jenny102783 member
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DH ran into his sister at Target and she asked him if I was pregnant! He said no and asked why she asked and she said because I didn't drink at his birthday party (I didn't even know then, I didn't drink because I was DD) and I didn't drink when they were over for Easter. Wow, that was fast. She catches on quick! I knew not drinking would be a dead give away.
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  • chrisloveskristenchrisloveskristen
    haha...oops. yeah..that's a pretty dead giveaway. :)
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  • MrsDCruzMrsDCruz member
    Eh, oh well.. let her sweat it out and tell her when you feel ready.
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  • kellieokkellieok
    LOL! This was not a problem for me since I don't like to drink but I know alot of ladies here got outed that way!
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  • candycane3tcandycane3t
    We found out a few days before our family xmas at DH's and thought for sure they knew based on me not drinking wine at dinner but I guess they didn't or at least they never said anything.  Holidays are usually a dead give away with not drinking!  When do you plan on telling?
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  • Jenny102783Jenny102783 member

    imagecandycane3t:
    We found out a few days before our family xmas at DH's and thought for sure they knew based on me not drinking wine at dinner but I guess they didn't or at least they never said anything.  Holidays are usually a dead give away with not drinking!  When do you plan on telling?

    We plan on telling in a few weeks when we hear the heartbeat. I go through phases though. One day, I say I don't want to tell until 12 weeks (DH said no to that) and then the next day, I say I need the support good or bad. I keep going back and forth.

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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member

    It always is. 

    I keep getting the side eye from people lately, I can't wait to let the cat out of the bag. 

    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
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  • ownedby3ownedby3
    I had to order a glass of wine to do the toast on Easter.  I put it to my lips and didn't drink it and then drank water the entire time.  About an hour later I told my mom I wasn't feeling the wine and she finished it.  Hopefully my cover-up worked!
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  • candycane3tcandycane3t
    imageJenny102783:

    imagecandycane3t:
    We found out a few days before our family xmas at DH's and thought for sure they knew based on me not drinking wine at dinner but I guess they didn't or at least they never said anything.  Holidays are usually a dead give away with not drinking!  When do you plan on telling?

    We plan on telling in a few weeks when we hear the heartbeat. I go through phases though. One day, I say I don't want to tell until 12 weeks (DH said no to that) and then the next day, I say I need the support good or bad. I keep going back and forth.

    DH made me keep it in until 12 weeks and we told at my Grandma's funeral.  Maybe you could tell your mom and MIL on Mother's day? I hear you about needing the support though, I asked DH who would support me if something went wrong and he said "that what your bump girl are there for" it made me giggle since it took him a while to come around to the idea of my internet friends

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  • JacquiemarkJacquiemark

    Uh oh, looks like the:

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