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Pregnant vs knocked up

A coworker and I were talking this weekend about saying pregnant vs knocked up. She said that knocked up is only appropriate when the couple isn't married and that if you are married its "trashy" to say you are knocked up. I had never heard that before. To me, the term is interchangeable with pregnant. Thoughts? Just curious!


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  • I think it probably depends on who I'm talking to and the context of the convo...
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  • Hmm...I would tend to agree that the phrase 'knocked up' is trashier than 'pregnant' - at least around here. It could be a regional thing.

     

  • Knocked up is kind of trashy in my opinion, and I never use it IRL, no matter what the relationship status of a person might be. The only context I use it in IRL is joking with friends.

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  • We use 'knocked up' or 'KU' around here all the time, but I don't think I would ever actually tell someone IRL that I was 'knocked up'.  I'll stick with 'pregnant'.
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  • If we are going 100% by etiquette, knocked up would be extremely rude to call someone unmarried. The more polite term would be "in a family way". Unless you were talking about her behind her back.

     

    Either way, I prefer OMGPREGGERZ!! 

    (I couldn't resist. I would use KU and Pregnant)

  • imageKathy4678:
    I think it probably depends on who I'm talking to and the context of the convo...

    I agree with this

  • imagePattypoundcake:

    If we are going 100% by etiquette, knocked up would be extremely rude to call someone unmarried. The more polite term would be "in a family way". Unless you were talking about her behind her back.

     

    Either way, I prefer OMGPREGGERZ!! 

    (I couldn't resist. I would use KU and Pregnant)

    LMAO!!!  I use ku or pg on here... I can't say I've ever said "knocked up" IRL... 

  • imageSarahL77:

    Knocked up is kind of trashy in my opinion, and I never use it IRL, no matter what the relationship status of a person might be. The only context I use it in IRL is joking with friends.

    This for me too.

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  • I think knocked up sounds trashy too. Kind of like something that you didn't mean to happen so now you're "knocked up". Doesn't really go along with all the good things about having a baby. I can't really picture myself saying "when I was knocked up with you DS..." you know.?.
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  • imageBabyRN2006:
    A coworker and I were talking this weekend about saying pregnant vs knocked up. She said that knocked up is only appropriate when the couple isn't married and that if you are married its "trashy" to say you are knocked up. I had never heard that before. To me, the term is interchangeable with pregnant. Thoughts? Just curious!

    My grandmother told me it was an extremely crude term when she was young, in her 20s. She told me this after I used the term.

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  • imagePattypoundcake:

    If we are going 100% by etiquette, knocked up would be extremely rude to call someone unmarried. The more polite term would be "in a family way". Unless you were talking about her behind her back.

     

    Either way, I prefer OMGPREGGERZ!! 

    (I couldn't resist. I would use KU and Pregnant)

     

    Or, alternatively: 'My eggo is preggo'. Stick out tongue

  • I kind of think of knocked up as accidental and pregnant as intentional, however I would never refer to myself as knocked up IRL, even if I did get pregnant accidentaly. It's irrational, I know.
  • imageDobermonster:
    imagePattypoundcake:

    If we are going 100% by etiquette, knocked up would be extremely rude to call someone unmarried. The more polite term would be "in a family way". Unless you were talking about her behind her back.

     

    Either way, I prefer OMGPREGGERZ!! 

    (I couldn't resist. I would use KU and Pregnant)

     

    Or, alternatively: 'My eggo is preggo'. Stick out tongue

    Well, obviously. That is only said in the politest of society Big Smile

  • When I hear the phrase 'knocked up' I think of it being an accident. I'd stick with pregnant.

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  • I don't really use KU IRL either, but I never really thought about it being trashy, lol. Maybe I am just used to seeing it on here


  • imageSarahL77:

    Knocked up is kind of trashy in my opinion, and I never use it IRL, no matter what the relationship status of a person might be. The only context I use it in IRL is joking with friends.

    This.

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  • imagemchupie:
    We use 'knocked up' or 'KU' around here all the time, but I don't think I would ever actually tell someone IRL that I was 'knocked up'.  I'll stick with 'pregnant'.

    This exactly.

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  • LMAO!  are we really having a serious conversation about the term knocked up?  am i the only one totally laughing over this conversation? 
  • imagemchupie:
    We use 'knocked up' or 'KU' around here all the time, but I don't think I would ever actually tell someone IRL that I was 'knocked up'.  I'll stick with 'pregnant'.

     I agree. I only use KU here because a) it's the norm. & b) it's quicker to write than "pregnant" 

    I think the only time I ever said "knocked-up" IRL was when gossiping about someone I didn't like who got his gf KU. 



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  • imagejbvg:
    LMAO!  are we really having a serious conversation about the term knocked up?  am i the only one totally laughing over this conversation? 

    I work on a postpartum unit, stuff like this comes up all the time, lol



  • imagemchupie:
    We use 'knocked up' or 'KU' around here all the time, but I don't think I would ever actually tell someone IRL that I was 'knocked up'.  I'll stick with 'pregnant'.

    This exactly! 

    I guess it all depends on the context and your experience.  The 2 months I have spent on this board have led to me equating the word "preggo" with fingernails on a blackboard. 

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  • imageBabyRN2006:

    imagejbvg:
    LMAO!  are we really having a serious conversation about the term knocked up?  am i the only one totally laughing over this conversation? 

    I work on a postpartum unit, stuff like this comes up all the time, lol

    Lol, yeah, sorry...didn't mean to come off rude.  It's just funny to disect the term "knocked up".  i don't have a problem with the term, but, maybe if some random dude knocked me up then i would have a problem with it.  haha:)

  • imagejbvg:
    imageBabyRN2006:

    imagejbvg:
    LMAO!  are we really having a serious conversation about the term knocked up?  am i the only one totally laughing over this conversation? 

    I work on a postpartum unit, stuff like this comes up all the time, lol

    Lol, yeah, sorry...didn't mean to come off rude.  It's just funny to disect the term "knocked up".  i don't have a problem with the term, but, maybe if some random dude knocked me up then i would have a problem with it.  haha:)

    Oh, I didn't think you were rude. No worries!

    Besides, its slow in here! Gotta find something to talk about :)



  • I would say "I'm knocked up!" to my girlfriends to be funny.  To anyone else I would never say "knocked up," because yes, I assume it means unmarried.
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  • I think "knocked up" is the hilarious way of saying someone is pregnant. I use it all the time in a joking context but I would agree its a bit more crass than saying "pregnant".
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  • imageBabyRN2006:
    imagejbvg:
    imageBabyRN2006:

    imagejbvg:
    LMAO!  are we really having a serious conversation about the term knocked up?  am i the only one totally laughing over this conversation? 

    I work on a postpartum unit, stuff like this comes up all the time, lol

    Lol, yeah, sorry...didn't mean to come off rude.  It's just funny to disect the term "knocked up".  i don't have a problem with the term, but, maybe if some random dude knocked me up then i would have a problem with it.  haha:)

    Oh, I didn't think you were rude. No worries!

    Besides, its slow in here! Gotta find something to talk about :)

    ok, phew :)  i'm on my best behavior on this board, but sometimes the real jen comes out;)  sometimes i feel really different than the other girls on this board.  like the word preggers....i totally don't mind it at all.  but i know it drives everyone else here totally bazirk (sp?).  i'm one of the older girls here (32 years old) and yet there's a good possibility i'm the least mature :)

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    IRL I only use pg, unless we're talking about someone who got pg on accident etc.... on here however I have no problem using the term KU

     

    Totally agree!

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  • imageKathy4678:
    I think it probably depends on who I'm talking to and the context of the convo...

    word.

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  • If I was talking to someone my own age I would feel better about using the term KU. However, to my mother & other "elders" I would feel uncomfortable using KU. I would say pregnant.
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    I always prefer "pregnant." I prefer it over "pg" (though I've typed that here before), "knocked up" or KU, "preggo", and "preggers". I just like the official terms. I also don't like "BD" or "baby dance" (though I've used them here), preferring "sex". I even don't like to say AF.

    I think that knocked up is a casual way of saying pregnant. I originally associated it with being unmarried or as an accident, but more people are using it now in all contexts, so now I think they are pretty much interchangeable. 


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  • On here, I sometimes use KU.

    IRL I always use pregnant, unless I'm gossiping about someone that I don't really like getting pregnant (especially if it was on accident). I do agree, it does sound trashy. However, I do think that I have used the KU term frequently in the past week in reference to my brother and his gf.

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  • McMrsMcMrs member
    I kind of agree with your coworker. It means the same thing yes, but pregnant suits a married person and knocked up suits someone unmarried. I know there's no logic in that, lol, but I agree with her. Maybe it's just because of that movie Knocked Up.
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