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First, I want to say that I appreciate all the well wishes from everyone.  It really means a lot to me to know that you all care.

 Unfortunately it's not good news.  I am having another miscarriage. I had my first beta on the 22nd and it was 304, yesterday they were 114.   It took me 2 years to get pregnant after my last miscarriage just to miscarry again. WTF! 

I have to get another beta tomorrow and then continue to go back until it gets to zero. I have a Dr's appt on Monday, which would have been my first ultrasound appt, to find out WTMF is going on and if this is going to keep happening.  Depending on what he says we will have to decide whether we  try again (which is what we are leaning towards), adoption, or just not having children. 

 This should not be this hard for any of us and it pisses me off that it is.

 I guess the silver lining in all of this is I can drink Coffee Beer and Drinks. 

 I probably won't be on much today so, thank you again for all the well wishes and sticky dust.  


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  • redsoxbonoredsoxbono

    I'm so, so, sorry.  That is just terrible and horribly unfair.  I wish there was something I could say to lessen your pain, but just know we are here for you when you need us.  Take care of yourself. {{hugs}}

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  • MDBeachbrideMDBeachbride member
    oh no, I am so sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • hollymichaelhollymichael
    Oh Birdie, I am so sorry.  You are right. It is unfair and it shouldn't be happening to so many of us on here. Lots of (((Hugs))))
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  • jcathjcath member
    I am so so sorry.
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  • iluvtomiluvtom member
    I am so sorry (((BIG HUGS)))
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  • joyfulnaturejoyfulnature

    My heart breaks reading your update, Birdie.

    I am so, so sorry.

    It IS so unfair.

    Just know that we are all here for you.  Do whatever you  need to give yourself some degree of comfort.

    (((hugs)))

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  • izzourclueizzourclue member
    I am so sorry.  Take care of yourself {{hugs}}
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  • mjencookmjencook

    I am truly sorry to hear...T&P are with you today.

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  • shyntrueshyntrue
    I'm so sorry!  {{{{Hugs}}}}
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  • lisa&lairdlisa&laird

    I am sending you many hugs and love this morning.  This is so unfair.  I am so sorry that you have to go through this.  Know that we are all here for you sweetheart.

    Lisa

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  • sadie sadiesadie sadie
    I am so sorry.  Left Hug  Take care of yourself.
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  • Haribo1Haribo1
    I am terribly sorry =(  
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  • DaisiesinmygardenDaisiesinmygarden member
    I'm so, so sorry.
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  • MAH123MAH123
    I'm so sorry, we're all here for you. Take care of yourself!
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  • NowDNAtooNowDNAtoo
    I'm really sorry you're dealing with this again.  Life is so unfair.  I hope your Dr. might be able to start to give you some answers to why this has happened.
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    I'm so sorry to hear this.

     

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  • rach2100rach2100 member
    imageredsoxbono:

    I'm so, so, sorry.  That is just terrible and horribly unfair.  I wish there was something I could say to lessen your pain, but just know we are here for you when you need us.  Take care of yourself. {{hugs}}

    Ditto this exactly....so very sorry!

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  • StrunellaStrunella member
    Oh, no...I am so sorry!!  This is such a difficult thing to go through.  I hope the doctor is able to give you some answers as you take time to figure out your options.  {{hugs}}
     
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  • MrsKarioMrsKario
    Honey, Im so sorry.   I will keep you and your DH in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • CharBartCharBart
    Oh sweetie, I am so sorry.  My thoughts are with you.
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  • Deanne ShehaneDeanne Shehane member
    I am SO sorry! We are here for you! It is so unfair!
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  • NicoleWINicoleWI member
    So sorry. It's not fair at all.
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