I'm right there w/ you! I give the evil eye to my husband when he tries to deviate from our routine b/c he thinks he's got a better plan...control issues, I know!
Oh, I feel your pain..Usually if DH is home sick (and he is able to fend for himself) I'll take DD out for the day...he just messes up the entire routine, haha!
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