Would you feel sorry for this person?
I have an acquaintance (by no means a friend) who does not take care of her first child properly. She goes out and parties all night with her DH leaving the baby at home with grandparents or whoever. She neglected to do a needed surgery for her child because she wouldn't bother to go get medi-cal for the child. She set her child on a countertop, the child fell off and got a concussion but she took him to daycare anyway because she had plans to go shopping. She did not go to the hospital when the child ended up there because of the concussion and vomiting, bloody noses etc.
Child welfare services has been called numerous times but she and her DH deny anything and tell a different story when they're investigated.
She does not believe in birth control yet she and her DH "swing' and have multiple partners.
She was pregnant. She made it clear she was upset that she was pregnant and did not want the baby but figured she'd have it because she could get more money from the state and she doesnt' believe in abortion.She is an extreme attention whore and super selfish. Nothing is about her child or her husband.
You're telling me that not one single part of you would think that it was odd that she was acting like the world ended because she had a m/c when she outright said she did not want the child?
Maybe this is different than the other situation but I don't see how someone can get on their high horse and act like they would NEVER understand being confused over emotions of a loss that was unwanted.