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RP: I judge people.

I'll admit it. Even when I shouldn't judge someone or even if I feel bad after judging them, I do it.

It's human nature. I think it's ridiculous when people say they don't judge others. 

I bet all those who say they don't judge are judging me for judging....how's that for ironic.

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  • Everyone judges. It's human nature. But to judge someone right after they've miscarried is a bit insensitive. Just leave it alone already.

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  • I agree.  It's almost a reflex to make an initial judgment.  I guess it would be more appropriate to say I don't automatically assume my initial judgment is correct and I try to think about what I might not know about the other person's situation before I form a more solid opinion.
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  • image FlyingCake:

    Everyone judges. It's human nature. But to judge someone right after they've miscarried is a bit insensitive. Just leave it alone already.

    I mean in general. And yes, it would be insensitive to judge anything regarding a m/c but that doesn't mean that it doesn't happen. People just don't usually admit it because it's not well received. Also, for the record I don't know any of the people the OP was talking about and can't judge that situation because I don't know them and don't care to.

     

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    Everyone judges. It's human nature. But to judge someone right after they've miscarried is a bit insensitive. Just leave it alone already.

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  • I judge people all the time. But personally, I just think miscarriage is one of those 'no go' topics for which nobody has the right to judge.

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    image FlyingCake:

    Everyone judges. It's human nature. But to judge someone right after they've miscarried is a bit insensitive. Just leave it alone already.

    fiesty.

    No actually not feisty at all. More like bored of the same tune. I judge, I judge. I saw it on BBOTB and 2 other times here. I mean, come on.

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  • Troubled kids? I was one. Gangs? Jail? I was there. Second chances? I got one. I went to law school, became a lawyer, and then a judge. Now I get to *give* second chances. It's time for hard decisions and tough love. Justice that makes a difference; *that's* what I'm about!

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  • I totally agree.

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