Infertility

"I can't believe I am stuck with all boys"

My bff just emailed me.  She found out she is having her fourth boy today.  Who says that?!?  I told DH, clearly she has no clue about IF or about counting her blessings. I can't even respond to that.  Ugh!!!

It's a GIRL! Born 12/16/10 Baby 2.0 is on the way! Due in June.

Re: "I can't believe I am stuck with all boys"

  • OH LORD! I don't know what I would do if someone said that to me. Probably rip their hair out of their head or something. I am so sorry!
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • Wow, some ppl are just amazing!

    I must be getting nastier as I continue on this IF train because I would have surely said something like, "Well at least you have kids" or "Yeah, I'm sure it sucks to have 4 beautiful children" and then hoped she caught on and felt like a complete a*s

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    ...I would have surely said something like, "Well at least you have kids" or "Yeah, I'm sure it sucks to have 4 beautiful children" and then hoped she caught on and felt like a complete a*s

     

    AGREE!!!

  • What she sees as "stuck with four boys" all of us here see as "I"d trade places in a minute!" 
    2009: 1st IVF began 12/29, cancelled due to OHSS; 1st full IVF began 2/10 ER 2/27 ET 3/4 BFN 3/13; IVF #2 began 5/23 ER 6/4 ET 6/9 BFP 6/18 Lost our baby on 9/12. 2010: IVF #3 (w/PGD) began 2/1 ER: 2/15 ET: 2/20 BFN 3/1; Took a break for hernia surgery and recovery; IVF #4 (w/PGD) began 6/30 ER 7/13 ET 7/18 BFN 7/27; IVF #5 began 10/23 ER 11/5 ET 11/10 Low Pos 11/19 BFN 11/22; Took a break: got a 2nd opinion,changed insurance,chose a new RE,and recharged emotionally. 2011: "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 6/4, 6/6, and 6/7 BFN on 6/21. "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 7/3 & 7/5 BFN on 7/19. "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 7/30, 8/1 & 8/2...the journey continues into 2012 with three more IVFs and 6 more IUIs...now looking at IVF with donor egg Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Daisypath Anniversary tickers
  • Wow, just wow. As an Aunt 9 nephews that makes me very mad!!!
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    After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!

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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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    Surprise! Baby #4 is due in March!
  • I still have not responded, I am very disappointed in her.  :(

    It's a GIRL! Born 12/16/10 Baby 2.0 is on the way! Due in June.
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