Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Pathology Results
It's been just over 2 weeks since my D&C, and I finally just got all of the results from my lab work. They were all negative which is great news that there doesn't appear to be anything specifically wrong with me. But it's also frustrating to not have any answers as to why I got so unlucky twice in a row. This makes me a little more hopeful that maybe the third time with be the charm, but I'm still terrified that it will happen again. I'm trying to be optimistic, but it's so hard right now. How do you overcome that fear and think positive?
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Re: Pathology Results
Rylan 1/27/2011, 2:42 pm, 5lbs 12oz, 18.5 inches long
Ayla 10/02/2013, 10:14 am, 6lbs 14oz, 19.25 inches long
Missed Miscarriage 6w3d 3/02/2010
I'll hold you in my heart until I hold you in heaven.
I know what you mean. I had three m/c in a row all within 6 months (4 total m/c), and I thought there had to be something wrong with me. I wanted there to be so that I would have some answers. Well, sometimes there aren't any answers to give.
The answer to your question is different for everyone. For me, the fear does not go away. After my first m/c, I stopped being positive. I have been criticized by some people in my family, but they have never been through one m/c, let alone 4. I tell myself hope, then I am that much more disappointed when it doesn't work out. It is a terrible attitude, but it is a complete coping mechanism.
Good for you trying to stay positive! I know it's hard, it's hard for me too. I am afraid if I let the negatives get to me, than it will spread it's ugliness to other things as well. The third time could be the charm
bfp 01/23/10 m/c 12w1d 03/14/10 EDD 09/24/10
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