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I am surrounded!!

Mrs.AlbieMrs.Albie member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
...by pregnant people!  Ugh.  They're in the office, they're at daycare, they're on facebook!  I am so jealous and I HATE it.  I am not a jealous person.  Go away pregnant people - at least until I can join you again.  Come on AF - I've never wanted you so bad in my life!! 
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    Sunflower730Sunflower730 member

    I know the feeling I had to take a break from FB as 12 of my friends are pregant, 5 of them all with in 2 weeks of when I was due. So its hard going on there to see their happy updates

    Walking in the mall last saturday I saw 3 pairs of boy and girl twins, one of the set was getting their picture taken with the easter bunny. I just stood there and cried.. it's not fair.

     

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    Mrs.AlbieMrs.Albie member
    imageSunflower730:

     .. it's not fair.

    Ugh, I know.  When I get jealous, I never never never mean that someone else doesn't deserve their baby or to be happy, but sometimes I get so....angry, I guess, that someone else gets to have a baby, and I lost mine.  The girl across the aisle at work just found out she's pregnant and is getting ready to turn down a promotion so she can qualify for welfare.  I guess the increase in salary doesn't offset the cost of diapers/formula...  Sigh.  I want my baby back.

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    BlakeGBlakeG member
    I totally agree.  I'm not proud of it but I can't deny the jealousy.  AF better show up sooner than later!
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    imageMrs.Albie:
    ...by pregnant people!  Ugh.  They're in the office, they're at daycare, they're on facebook!  I am so jealous and I HATE it.  I am not a jealous person.  Go away pregnant people - at least until I can join you again.  Come on AF - I've never wanted you so bad in my life!! 

     I agree with you.  I'm too surrounded by pregnant people and everywhere I turn I see them and how happy they are.  It just makes me so angry and want AF so we can start trying again.

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    kaw2723kaw2723
    You are definitely not alone in feeling that way. I just hope that all of the pregnant women out there realize how fortunate they are, and I don't want to hear a single one of them complain about the discomforts of pregnancy because I would do anything to have them. The hardest for me is my sister who is due 2 weeks before my due date for my 2nd m/c. I don't want to hear anything about her pregnancy right now or watch her belly grow, and she has every right to be excited about it. Waiting for AF and to be able to try again feels like an eternity right now.
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    Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    I am so sorry, I am feeling the exact same way!! They are everywhere Tongue Tied

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    butterfly843butterfly843
    I know how you feel. Everywhere I turn I see pregnant women and after my loss seeing so many twins.

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    StretchadStretchad member

    I've actually been avoiding Facebook for this very reason. I've got no less than 9 friends who are frequent updaters who have either just given birth, or are pregnant. 

    And at work, I can barely talk to my coworker who just got back from paternity leave. And another coworker who just found out what she's having...and anotehr who's so close to being due, and another coworker couple who are expecting a month before I was due. Sigh......Hang in there. 

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    rock-ellerock-elle member
    ditto ditto ditto, I def feel your pain today with that!
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