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Disappointed in My Sister (preg ment.)

My sister just called from her big u/s to let me know I will soon be an aunt to a baby nephew. Not only would our babies be the same age, but both boys. She was crying because "she really wanted a girl." What? This is her first and she is telling this to her sister who just lost her baby. I thought I was being good for being excited for her in general, but yikes. Fertiles just dont get it. Ever.
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Re: Disappointed in My Sister (preg ment.)

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    I'm really sorry she said that to you. Your a better women then me because had it been my sister I wouldn't have hesitated to say something to her about being so silly about the sex of her child considering my current situation!

    *hugs*

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    I'm so sorry. That's just wrong.  Big hugs to you!!
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    Sorry to hear but so true alot of people complain about sex crazy! We all wish that could be our biggest worry right haha 
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    WOW, you are a much better/more patient person than I am.

    (((HUGS)))

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    UGH!!  I think it is horrible to get upset over the sex of a baby (fertiles really don't get it i guess?!)... my mom used to be like that ...always saying she wanted a granddaughter and not a boy.... but i kept reminding her our only wish is for a healthy baby someday!  Who cares what the sex is... i think either one would be a miracle and blessing and i would love that child to pieces!!  :-/  Sorry you had to deal with this and so sorry for your loss
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    I'm really sorry she said that to you. Your a better women then me because had it been my sister I wouldn't have hesitated to say something to her about being so silly about the sex of her child considering my current situation!

    This.

    I am so sorry hon.

    (((((hugs))))) 

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    I'm so sorry that your sister is too wrapped up in her own MUD that she can't be more sensitive.  I will never understand gender disappointment, ever.
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    :< I can NOT stand people who just can't be happy with a healthy baby. People can really suck.

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