I am 14 weeks preggo with my 3rd child. I already have a boy and a girl and would kinda like to be surpised with this one. My husband and I found out what the other 2 were at the ultrasound and he wants to know with this one. My question is... If you have done it both ways, which did you prefer? Was just as big of a surprise at birth as it was at the ultrasound? I just can't make up my mind and I know that I will soon have to make that choice.