between feedings? DS is nursing every 2 hours and it's making me a zombie. My first DS ate every 3 from the begining and slept about 4 hrs at a time. I am hoping he puts more space between feedings soon before I die from sleep deprevation.
2 hours around the clock? We never did that consistently :-/ We did every 45 minutes during the day and then 5-7 hour stretches at night. It was a different kind of crazy-making.
Have you tried co-sleeping and co-napping to get some more sleep for yourself?
He's eaten every 3 hours since coming home from the hospital, now he's starting to spread it to 4 hours, though its not consistent at all. He STTN most of the time... pump and have your DH do a night feeding. When Ethan would wake at night, DH did the feeding since E only woke once. It was so nice!
The moment a child is born,
the mother is also born.
She never existed before.
The woman existed, but the mother, never.
A mother is something absolutely new.
I think by about a month she started to go to 3 hours between feedings sometimes and then it became more regular. But by 2 months she started going longer between feedings at night. If your child isn't doing that maybe you can pump and have DH take a feeding and get some much needed rest!
Daughter born July 2008; Daughter born March 2010
Son born August 2011
Well he's a month old and this is going nonstop!!! We have been to the Dr. quite a few times for various little things and he has gained a lb a week! Yes 4 lbs in 4 weeks! I am afraid he may never stop eating. My husband jokes that our oldest is going to be a quaterback and Grayson is going to be the linebacker. I would laugh but I'm too tired.
we're still on a 2 hour day schedule and 3-4 hour night schedule. and kiddo won't take a bottle at all so literally every single meal has been given to her from my breast. i'm tired.
my boy is still eating every 2-3 hours.. All night too. I am exhausted!!! It's been almost 6 mo. I am anxious to start more solids to see if it will help.
KBH! I've got a linebacker too! My DS gained 4 lbs in 4 weeks too. he was 12 lbs at his 1 month checkup and good lord...I don't know if his gianing has slowed yet...we'll find out on the 8th at his 2 month checkup. He usually nurses about ever 2 hours during the day unless he takes a long nap, which is rare. He nurses every 3-4 hours at night. Usually one 4 hour stretch in the beginning and then every 3 after that until about 5 a.m. then he's up every 2 hours after that. I'm sooo tired. I just want this chunk to sleep a little longer. It does help when we co-sleep though.
My son is the same way and if I don't co-sleep he wakes every 1 to 1.5 hours to eat. Some times during the day I can get a 3 hour stretch. All I can do to not be dead tired is to take a nap during the day when he naps.
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im totally with u on this one!
Have you tried co-sleeping and co-napping to get some more sleep for yourself?
The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.
Bean's feeding schedule changed around 8-10 weeks if that helps any. He finally started eating every 1.5-2 hours during the day.
KBH - Damn! 4 pounds in 4 weeks! That kid is chowing or you've got super milk ;-)
Graham started spacing out feedings a little more at night around 1 month, but still eats about every 2 hours during the day.