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MIL is blaming me (and bfing) for Michael's eczema

MIL watched the boys for me today so I could go to the hospital to be with DH, which I am grateful for.  When I went to pick them up we were chit-chatting.  Michael was sitting on my lap and I was trying to look behind his ears where his eczema is the worst.  He pulled away from me like he usually does when I try to check and I said something like, "I'm sorry Mommy gave you that stuff" (I also have eczema and behind my ears was always the worst growing up.

MIL pipes up to say that she read an article that was *interesting*. It said kids who were bfed longer than a year are more likely to suffer from eczema.  So you know, it's not only my genes that are making Michael suffer, but my parenting choices as well.
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Re: MIL is blaming me (and bfing) for Michael's eczema

  • I thought kids who were BF that long were less likely to have it. Jack has it but pretty mild.

    Weird, and none of her business. 

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  • Did you read my FB status about this yesterday??? Below:

    The problem with living in the so-called "information age" is that everything you hear comes from one gigantic game of telephone. Case in point: My dad tells me that he heard, "Breastfeeding longer than six months causes eczema." A little research turns up the attached study which was performed on 321 infants, ALL of w...hom were born to mothers with a "history of asthma." The study showed that 55% of said babies developed eczema before age 2. However, "Because all of the mothers in the study had a history of asthma, the findings cannot be generalized to other women." Yet look at the title of the article - misleading at best, inflammatory at worst. You know those looking to add a little drama to their newcast (certain cable "news" station, I'm looking at you) won't read past the title to get the real facts. Le sigh.

    https://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE62P38T20100326

     

  • What?  She's cuckoo!  My DS had (and still has) eczema when he was really little.  So, what's her explanation for that?  Oh yeah, and I didn't bf past a year.  

    Just shrug her off.  I know it's tough and it sucks, but she doesn't know what she's talking about! 

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  • lol RR - I didn't read that.

      I just said to her that my niece has it really bad (she was ff from birth) and it just runs in my family.  I'm just surprised because it was the first really negative thing she has said about my bfing.  I'm the odd duck in the family though, she ff all of her kids and all of my sil's ffed their kids.

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  • DS has had eczema since a new born and has been FF since a new born as well.  Sooooo what is her point?  DH has eczema too though, and DS has very sensitive skin.  MIL always know everything, and everything always makes you out to be the bad mom.
  • My nephews were all formula fed and the one has the worst eczema I have ever seen.  It's all over his legs and looks almost like burns.  So tell your MIL to stick it :-)

    Is eczema hereditary?  My daughter used to have it around her mouth, but my husband and I do not have it.  Since we switched to Dove Sensitive skin soap she hasn't had a breakout it months.

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  • I read some article that said over sanitizing baby bottles etc (past 6 mths) leads to eczema.  I think there are a lot of bogus eczema studies out there :)
  • yes eczema is hereditary and dh just informed me when I told him the story that his brother had eczema really bad as a kid. lol, she didn't mention that part and it kind of flies in the face of what she was saying as he definitely wasn't bfed
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    I thought kids who were BF that long were less likely to have it. Jack has it but pretty mild.

    Weird, and none of her business. 

    this.  this is what i've ALWAYS read and always told by the pedi.  definitely NONE OF HER BUSINESS.

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  • y'know, i think that Liam Neeson is getting old.  Plus, i think he's not throwing any throatpunches in clash of the titans.  i mean, that hair does not lend to throatpunching.

    and thus, for your MIL, i shall send.....

     

    sayid jarrah.  he'll cut a b1tch.

  • Oh FFS, she's insane.

    DH has eczema all over him and DD has small patches of it behind her ears.

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    And I bet you caused global warming too!? This is a crock. DD had eczema from...birth? I think?? Definitely wayyyyy before she'd been on the boob a year.? I'd say by 1 to 2 months she was a rashy little baby.? She started to outgrow it around 3 months and now it's totally gone except for a patch or two on her legs and every now and then on her arms.? She was breastfed for nearly 13 months.? Now, I DID hear that if the mother has any history of atopic disease (eczema, asthma, respiratory allergies) there may (stress MAY) be a connection to breastfeeding and the development of atopic diseases in the child since the child's system mimics the mother's immune response for the first couple of months, but this is not definitive, and neither my mom nor my dad had eczema (I was b.f.'ed).? My niece's father had terrible eczema, and she got a pretty bad case of it as an older child, but my sister never had it (and her ex-hubby was not breastfeeding).? So basically, your MIL has no effin' clue what she's talking about.? Yeah.
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