Am I doing something wrong or what. They are 10 weeks old and still eating every 3 hours. They eat 3 to 4 ounces. Should I start making them wait longer? They cry and get fussy so that would mean dealing with the crying for a few days but what did you guys do? Or did you just let happen whenever it happens. Oh, and they weigh 11 pounds. And they were 6 weeks preemie. Just in case those stats matter.
Re: 10 weeks and still eating every 3 hours
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
Mine do it 'round the clock. I have to get up every 3 hours at night too. Meaning I'm only getting 30 min to 2 hour stretches of sleep... if I'm lucky. My body is adjusting somewhat to this kind of sleep but some days I don't even feel human. Do yours do it at night too?
Mine will go between 6 and 7 hours at night. It's during the day they're eating like maniacs.
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
OMG! What am I doing wrong. How did you get them to sleep at night like that?
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
I'm perfectly fine with them eating every 3 hours during the day... as a matter of fact I would be fine with them eating every hour on the hour during the day. But I seriously feel I will lose my mind if I don't sleep soon. Counting 2 weeks of hospital bed rest before they were born it has been 12 weeks since I slept longer than 2 hours at a time!
I bet they'll start sleeping longer at night within the next few weeks. Our girls started sleeping 7 hours straight just all of a sudden one night... it was SO refreshing to get decent sleep : ) (They've gradually been sleeping longer since then.)
Oh trust me--I feel your pain. We went through the same thing (including the hospitalized bedrest!). Do they ever clusterfeed later in the day? That was one thing that helped our girls start sleeping longer stretches. Sometimes they wanted food every 1-1.5 hours later in the day, rather than every 2-3. You might want to try offering them more frequent meals as bedtime approaches--it could be worth a shot!
you're not doing anything wrong! who said they had to eat less often right now? i think at 4or 5mos our ped wanted us to move from 8 to 6 feedings. ours are 33 1/2wkers, so same as you. yes, i do think that matters, esp early on. our ped had us give them water between a morning feeding and later in the afternoon feeding. they hated it, but it did work. the transition took a few weeks.
fwiw, my dd wanted to eat every 2-3hrs at that time.
i remember one of my sleep books talks about extending feeding times very early. it was not in the cards for me. audrey had reflux and i think she needed to eat less quantity, but more often.