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CP: Gender

I really do NOT care if I have a boy or a girl.. but I really, really want a baby girl at some point.

I have a nursery FULL of little girl stuff, and dammit - those dresses are just too insanely adorable to never get worn.

 

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Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section

Re: CP: Gender

  • I know this is a headdesk response - I really just want a healthy one.

    I'd be happy buying little dresses or overalls.

    See Universe? I am very ungreedy. GIVE ME A GDAMN BABY BEFORE I JUST LOSE IT.

  • ok, i'm the douche that put "carrie stop being a pw"

    only because i didn't see another option.  i dont have anything for a baby and i really really really don't care.  i have pros and cons to both sexes. 

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  • imageTexas77again:

    ok, i'm the douche that put "carrie stop being a pw"

    only because i didn't see another option.  i dont have anything for a baby and i really really really don't care.  i have pros and cons to both sexes. 

    LOL fair enough.

    I agree. I would just be happy with ANYTHING at this point. All I really want is happy and healthy. 

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • I've always wanted a girl.  But we're only taking one shot and will be ecstatic either way.
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    4 early losses 2009, 2010, 2015.  Baby #1 born 2/13/11.  
  • I clicked "girl" but I really don't care.

    I get "spring girl fever" when I see all the frilly Easter dresses. ::swoons::

    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
  • Okay...so I obviously don't care as long as it is our forever baby...but having a girl would be so much easier as I just lost 2 boys.  For some reason I feel like it would be easier for me.  Sometimes I feel like if I have a boy it will be like I am trying to replace the little men I lost.  ::sigh::  But of course, regardless, I will be glowing with joy when our LO arrives...who know how long from now.
  • imageschen0510:
    Okay...so I obviously don't care as long as it is our forever baby...but having a girl would be so much easier as I just lost 2 boys.  For some reason I feel like it would be easier for me.  Sometimes I feel like if I have a boy it will be like I am trying to replace the little men I lost.  ::sigh::  But of course, regardless, I will be glowing with joy when our LO arrives...who know how long from now.

    I totally understand this sentiment. I don't know really. I want a girl because I am in love with all the clothes for little girls, but like you said, it would almost feel like replacing the girl I lost.

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • If Glinda the Magic Gender fairy floated down on her bubble and said, "Triple, I will grant you one magic sticky pregnancy and you get to pick the gender!" then I'd say girl.

    But in the real world, I'll take what I can get.

    Weirdly, when I imagine holding my newborn in the hospital and showing her off to friends and family, it's always Josephine Edith, but when I picture myself at the playground with a toddler, it's Simon Kelly.

    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • when I was KU, I really wanted a boy...but now I really really don't care..DH and I have talked about it and we're not even sure we'll find out when/if we get KU again

  • Before getting pg and having two miscarriages I always wanted two boys.  I can honestly say I don't have a preference now.
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  • I used to always say how much I wanted a little girl. Now it doesn't matter as long as I get a healthy baby to take home.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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