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Goodbye Ladies!

mn*plummmn*plumm member
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We happily decided that our family is complete. We are done with the drugs, the losses, the stress and are just focusing on us and the joy our daughter brings into our lives.

We decided on Friday that DH would be getting a Vasectomy as soon as we are able to and I feel like all of the stress just slipped out of my life upon deciding that. We are excited for our future and that is that. :)

So, I wish the best of luck to all of you ladies in your journey. My only advice is to just listen to your heart and your gut and do what is best for not just you but your whole family.

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  • hoping4morehoping4more member
    I'm glad you are happy with your decision. It was nice getting to know you, good luck in all your future endeavors 
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  • Mr.&MrsSMr.&MrsS

    I am happy you were able to make a decision that was best for you and your family! Enjoy your little girl, and continue to be stress free. Smile

    FWIW- We made a similar decision. We went through treatments for both boys and didnt want to do that again. But I am a type A personality and I cant "just wait and see what happens." I would stress about it ALL.THE.TIME. So we decided that DH would get a vasectomy and our family was complete. While sometimes I wonder if we made the right decision, I am really happy and it has taken a lot of stress out of our lives and we are just loving the family we have now, not the one we dont have. I hope you are able to find that same peace!!

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  • sommerraynesommerrayne
    You know you can't get rid of me MN Plumm :) But you know I'm over the moon excited and happy for you. You have such an awesome attitude about life in general and your family is full because of that!

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  • shaunieshaunie
    Best wishes to you and your family!!
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  • hope4ushope4us member

    Just want to wish you the best of luck!

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  • AmandaMacDAmandaMacD member
    That is wonderful that you made the best decision for you and your family.  Best of luck to you! Smile
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  • queenbonequeenbone member
    We will miss you!  I am glad you are finding peace :)
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  • TessCPDFTessCPDF
    I'm happy that you were able to find peace.  Best wishes for the future! 
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  • MandynStephenMandynStephen member
    Wishing you happiness!
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  • kellyloveszachkellyloveszach
    What a mature decision for you and your family.  I wish you all the best and tons of happiness.
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  • alchrisalchris member
    That's the type of decision a mother makes in your situation.  I think you have a fantastic attitude.  I wish you the very best of happiness and peace with your beautiful family.
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  • jerseymommajerseymomma
    Much happiness to you and your family!!! 
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  • firsttogofirsttogo
    Best of luck, and good wishes to you and your family. Good Luck with Dh's surgery, and I am glad you have found peace.
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  • franciscazfranciscaz member
    I am really excited for you b/c you seem like you are at such peace!  Best wishes and pop in over here every now and again so we can know how you are doing Smile
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  • eyenerdeyenerd
    Good luck to you and your family!  I wish you nothing but the best.  Have fun with your daughter and your hubby:)
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