TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

16DPO and BFN

No sign of AF and a BFN. 

DH and I got into our first real argurment during this process last night.  He told me I need to stop "stressing about every little thing going on in my body."

Um hello DOCTOR isn't that what I'm supposed to be doing?

He apologized and told me he "understands why I'm so upset" but I'm still irked.  This process is frustrating, emotional and now it's caused an argument between us.

Do you ever fight with DH about this stuff?  Up to this point he's been amazing, I couldn't ask for better.  He says "I hate seeing you put yourself through this every month."

Isn't this the point?

Stupid TTC.

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Re: 16DPO and BFN

  • Yes, it is stressful.  And yes, we've fought about it.  And yes we've said things to each other that we didn't mean.

     

    And, ultimately, yes, we survived it. 

     

    I'm sorry for the tough times, I really am.  They are very hard.  But normal.  Oh so very normal. 

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  • yes DH says i stress over this stuff all time and the funny thing is, he does not know the half of it b/c i try to limit my TTC talks w/ him.  i really think if i talked to him about how i feeling constantly we would not be TTC right now b/c i'd drive him insane.  so unfortunately that burdon is left on my shoulders and thank god for this group b/c w/o it i would be lost. it's my only release to come on here and chat w/ other ladies going thru the same thing.  men just dont get it like women do. 

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  • So super stressful.  DH and I talk about it all the time.  Sometimes he is great and other times he thinks I over think everything and that I am going nuts.

     Sorry for the BFN.  I hope that either changes or AF comes soon. 

  • yeah we've had that conversation before too. But I agree with DH right now, I was stressing too much.Now I am doing all I can not to pay so much attention to my body, at least for a couple of months. I need a break...
    Started TTC - 01/2009 1st BFP - 09/04/09,1st u/s - 10/06/09- no heartbeat seen, D&E - 10/13/09 BFP #2 - 2/12/10, m/c 2/17/10 BFP #3 - 01/03/11 m/c 01/10/11 BFP #4 - 02/21/11 DS born 10/13/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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