Really worried, please help!

manny&mo · March 2010

So this morning was our first appointment, the doctor did a vaginal u/s and found the baby and the sac, but no heartbeat. Doc said everything else looks fine (development, size, etc.). He also said I am 6 weeks and 3 days, and "should" see a heartbeat, but also that its "not uncommon" to not see it yet!?! Has this ever happened to anyone? and the outcome? Doc scheduled another u/s for 2 weeks from today, and said if we don't see or hear one at that point there is something wrong. I'm not sure how I am going to make it a whole 2 weeks not knowing, please help

MrsVonKikabee · March 2010

It's still a little early to see a hb. At this stage, things can vary day by day. Your doc isn't concerned, so try not to worry too much. I hope the next 2 weeks fly by for you.

Emiliana7 · March 2010

same as pp said. a little early. When I had my first u/s there was just a sac. Next appt heartbeat! So don't worry- esp. since your dr isn't worrying. You have another appt and u/s and just go from there.

Temp149801812508276 · March 2010

My doctor doesn't even listen for the heartbeat until 11-12 weeks. I think it is so hit and miss early on, so she likes to avoid situations like this. I wouldn't worry unless your doctor tells you to.

manny&mo · March 2010

Thank you ladies, but easier said than done

We greatly appreciate your advice, T & P!

MSC03 · March 2010

The heart does start beating in the 6th week and at this point, a day can make a huge difference. In fact, you baby's heart could have started beating this afternoon. It's crazy how fast things change.

I know it's going to be tough, but try to stay positive--it's a good sign that the baby is growing and was a good size.

06162006bride · March 2010

I am 6 weeks pregnant and when I scheduled my first visit they suggested i wait until week 8 so that there would be a heart beat, the heart is now only forming I was told at week 5,6. Good luck and stop stressing.

Tania

mrsashby · March 2010

I was talking about this in an earlier post. I don't understand while all these docs are doing US so early. Because sometimes you just can't see things...because it is early! Now you are worried....don't be worried...it is just early yet.

hope915 · March 2010

my doctor told me specifically because of this she doesn't do the first u/s until at least 8 weeks. She said that any earlier if the parents don't see the heartbeat it causes them to worry for no reason alot of times. I know the next 2 weeks of your life are going to drag, but keep your head up Smile

manny&mo · March 2010

Ok we're trying not to worry, trying to stay positive. I even made a ticker, let's hope these next 2 weeks fly by. And praying the next u/s results are better than the first. Thanks Again Ladies!

psychdork · March 2010

I had this exact same thing happen to me. My follow up appointment is tomorrow. Hoping to see the heartbeat then.

Sweets2005 · March 2010

MrsSummitCounty:

The heart does start beating in the 6th week and at this point, a day can make a huge difference. In fact, you baby's heart could have started beating this afternoon. It's crazy how fast things change.

I know it's going to be tough, but try to stay positive--it's a good sign that the baby is growing and was a good size.

This.

divasociety · March 2010

I was in my 5th week and am currently waiting out my 2 weeks til I go back. The nurse said that they tell everyone that they should see a hb by week 7, so try not to be too concerned! Also, it depends on the equipment they are using. The tech told me to come back to her in 2 weeks because her machine was better than the machine in the exam room.

veronicacorningstone · March 2010

mrsashby:
I was talking about this in an earlier post. I don't understand while all these docs are doing US so early. Because sometimes you just can't see things...because it is early! Now you are worried....don't be worried...it is just early yet.

Um, because maybe some people have fertility issues? Or recurrent pregnancy loss? I had my first u/s at 6w6d and heard both heartbeats.

OP, I know it's hard not to worry, but I just wanted to add that a day or two can make a huge difference. Your LO's heart could be beating right now. If your doctor was really concerned I could imagine he'd bring you back in a week, instead of two. I hope everything works out for you.

manny&mo · March 2010

psychdork:
I had this exact same thing happen to me. My follow up appointment is tomorrow. Hoping to see the heartbeat then.

I read your postings, hope all goes well for you today! Sending T & P your way!

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