Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

do you give your LO chocolate?

DD got into a box of See's chocolate yesterday at a friends house. Her 7 year old daughter left it in the floor after she got a piece. Another friend of mine, who was also there, gave me this long lecture about what a bad mother I am for *letting* DD have chocolate.

Um... #1. it was left of the floor  #2. I did not *give* it to her and #3. It will not kill her. 

So now I am wondering, who gives or lets there LO have chocolate? Not all the time, but maybe taste it. 

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Re: do you give your LO chocolate?

  • I've let DS share my chocolate ice cream as a little treat but he hasn't had any chocolate bars or candy just yet.
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  • I have no problem giving DS a taste of anything.  But then again, I have no problem with him having a donut, lollipop, or ice cream sandwich, etc.  Moderation is my motto.  I can't imagine life without treats.  Its not like DS eats cookies for breakfast and cotton candy for lunch.
  • We'll give Jack two of those mini M&Ms sometimes as a treat.
  • imageroxysurf99:
    I have no problem giving DS a taste of anything.  But then again, I have no problem with him having a donut, lollipop, or ice cream sandwich, etc.  Moderation is my motto.  I can't imagine life without treats.  Its not like DS eats cookies for breakfast and cotton candy for lunch.

    I have the same mentality. 

  • imageroxysurf99:
    I have no problem giving DS a taste of anything.  But then again, I have no problem with him having a donut, lollipop, or ice cream sandwich, etc.  Moderation is my motto.  I can't imagine life without treats.  Its not like DS eats cookies for breakfast and cotton candy for lunch.

    This. I eat treats so I think it would be hypocritical if I never let my LOs so much as taste them. They've had chocolate a few times; their birthday cupcakes were devil's food (gluten-free) cupcakes. They've had chocolate pudding a few times. We've put a tsp of Ovaltine in their milk (per the pedi's suggestion) a couple times when they were going through a few days of not wanting to drink their milk. I've given them tiny tastes of brownies I was eating a couple times. That's about it. Like you said, it won't hurt them.

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  • she hasn't had any candy yet, but she's had cookies and cake and chocolate pudding.  She likes them all, but certainly hasn't flipped out over any of them.  She does love her cheese though. .. 
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  • imageroxysurf99:
    I have no problem giving DS a taste of anything.  But then again, I have no problem with him having a donut, lollipop, or ice cream sandwich, etc.  Moderation is my motto.  I can't imagine life without treats.  Its not like DS eats cookies for breakfast and cotton candy for lunch.

    This exactly!

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  • We let DD have tastes of everything we have, except Shellfish or fish (since I have an extreme allergy to shellfish).

    I believe moderation is the key!

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  • DD has been given chocolate on occasion, not all the time.

  • I don't because I don't eat sweets so I never think to buy stuff like that.  But I'm sure he has treats at grandpa's, and he eats ice cream with me (the only sweet thing I eat).
  • DS has had some M&Ms from time to time and maybe a sip of chocolate milk or a bite of chocolate ice cream...but never candy bars or anything like that.
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  • She's really only had chocolate on cakes at special events. When I have ice cream she's usually in bed and I just don't have chocolate cookies in the hosue. I never give her candy. Lord only knows what my ILs give her though.

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  • no b/c i'm allergic so we're waiting. but she has a lifetime to try sweets. i hear other people saying moderation and i agree when she's older. right now we're pushing the fruits/veggies and meats. what she doesn't know she's missing won't hurt her. imho, she's too young for "junk food".  food revolution anyone?
  • I'll let her have a few small chocolate chips here and there, and she has shared a chocolate pudding with me. I feel like things that are not allowed at all are the things they will overindulge in later and teaching moderation is the key. I treat myself to these things, why not her? :)
  • DD loves an Andes mint every now and then.  I will also give her a bite of my mini Dove dark chocolate if I'm having one.  That's the most she's every had at a time, though, and it only happens once every few weeks.  I see nothing wrong with letter her have a treat now and then. 
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  • It's a baby, not a German shepherd. I think it's going to be okay.

    Joseph has had chocolate. He actually is not a big fan. Except for brownies.

     

  • DD will get a couple nibbles off our ice cream if we are eating it. We also give her cookies which is usually 1 cookie because thats all she wants. Or if we have cake she gets some too.

    We also give her chocolate but not very often. This past weekend we where at a Baptism & the favors where chocolate lollipops. She ate a little bit of it & was wired for sound. OMG! lol She crashed hard too. For this reason we try not to give her sugar.

    I don't understand your friends problem.

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    Um, what is life without chocolate? :-)

    We've given DDs chocolate chip pancakes a couple times and they've had chocolate chip cookies a time or two.  Oh yeah, their BD cupcakes were devil's food.  And there are a couple little chocolate bunnies for their Easter basket.  So, nope, they definitely don't eat as much of it as I do, but they've gotten a few tastes.  There is nothing that I won't let them try...well, maybe not booze or soda, but almost everything else is fair game. 

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  • imageroxysurf99:
    I have no problem giving DS a taste of anything.  But then again, I have no problem with him having a donut, lollipop, or ice cream sandwich, etc.  Moderation is my motto.  I can't imagine life without treats.  Its not like DS eats cookies for breakfast and cotton candy for lunch.

    OMG...I found my twin.  LOL.  But I agree with this.  My LO has had a piece of my chocolate chip cookie.  no biggie. 

  • Your friend is a jerk for lecturing you. My DS has had a bite of cookie and ice cream sandwich, but that is about it. His birthday cake was chocolate, but he wanted nothing to do with it.
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  • DD looooves dark chocolate...she doesn't eat it all the time or even once a week, but she's had it.  I feel no guilt LOL
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  • Absolutely. DD has dessert when we have dessert. I like to bake, so we often have cookies or brownies or something around, and I let her have them. She also eats pretty much everything else under the sun, including fruits and vegetables and pretty much whatever else you offer her. Introducing her to chocolate did not ruin her for vegetables.

    Actually, at this age, "helping Mommy bake cookies" really means sitting on the counter, helping dump stuff and munching on chocolate chips. I have no problem with this definition. :) 

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  • DD has tried chocolate a few of times.  She has had a bite of a choc. chip cookie, a bit of DH's chocolate ice cream, etc.  I have never given her a whole piece of chocolate to eat but I don't freak out if she gets a little.  All things in moderation.   
  • i made brownies the other day (which I thought were fantastic!), but she spit it out.. which leads me to wonder how she can be related to me!  Stick out tongue
  • I don't, I'm a bit picky about foods with DS.  I don't want him to have a taste for it then cause problems when I take it away.  I'd rather give him more nutritious sweet treats.
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  • Yes, in moderation, just like a lot of the PPs.  We don't give her a treat every day but now that she's older (20-months) I think it's perfectly fine for her to have a treat now and then.  Heck, as long as she's eating a well balanced diet most of the time, why not?
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    I don't because I don't eat sweets so I never think to buy stuff like that.  But I'm sure he has treats at grandpa's, and he eats ice cream with me (the only sweet thing I eat).

     

    thats awesome! how do you do that? i love sweets.. major sweet tooth every single day!

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  • my dd has tastes of things when we are around eating it. she loves sweets just like mommy!! we started giving her tastes around 8 months when we went out to ice cream. this weekend we out to chinese food(buffet style) with her. my husband was eating choc. pudding while i was feeding her food. my dh gave her a taste and after that she kept saying more,more,more. i tried to give her food and she spit it out. it was quite cute:)
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  • Yes, a piece here and there.  We are a pro-chocolate family.
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  • DS gets a mini york patty after dinner a couple of times a week.  He's still alive and doesn't ask for any other junk food so I don't see the big deal.
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  • Yes. If we have treats, cookies or candy around the house, generally DD is allowed to share some. 

    She loves helping us make cookies from scratch; I prefer using M&Ms to chocolate chips, and she'll pick a few out and eat them. :) We've had some Easter candy around lately -- mini-Snickers and such -- and if DH or I have a couple, we'll split one with her if she wants. 

    If we have chocolate cake or pudding for dessert, we don't usually give her her own serving, but we do let her share ours.  

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    DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010
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