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The Worries Begin...

Karter had a doc appt yesterday and she only weighed 5 lbs, 7 oz.  She lost 12% of her body weight.  Her pedi was concerned and recommended that I go home and feed her every two hours breastmilk and chart her poops and pees.  So we did that. 

We went back today and she weighs the same.  So the new recommendation is that we go home, feed her every two hours off the breast using a nipple shield, and then pump out the rest and offer it to her in a bottle.  We have to offer her at least an ounce after each breastfeeding.

We go back tomorrow and if she hasn't gained any weight then she will be put in the hospital and monitored.  This sucks.  I really hope I can get her to eat better.  I don't know what I am doing wrong.

 

Re: The Worries Begin...

  • Oh, no!  Hopefully the new system works tonight and there's no need for a hospital visit.
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  • oh no :(  I hope she gains some weight and she doesn't have to go to the hospital!  good luck!
  • Oh no!! Tons of eating vibes tonight!!! Eat Kiki!! Eat!!! Keep us updated!!
  • Oh no! That's awful!!! Hopefully the new eating routine will get her to gain a little bit of weight.

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  • Update!  She ate the entire ounce from the bottle after eating off the boob too!  So things are looking good!  I am hopeful. 

    The lady across the street is a nurse and said that often early term babies just don't have the capabilities to suck the milk out of a boob and either need a nipple shield or the extra pumping.  So that is comforting also, to know that it is common anyway.  I am a little sad that nobody told me this in the hospital.  In fact the one nurse that said anything about a nipple shield recommended I didn't use one!  I hate conflicting advice.

  • I am sorry to hear that, Ashley, but hopefully she'll start to get the hang of it and a hospital visit won't be necessary.  Hang in there!  HUGS!
  • Oh no Ashely... Sending lots of vibes that Kiki starts eating more and gaining some weight!!!

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  • Lots of weight gaining :::vibes::: for Kiki!!
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  • :( I hope she keeps eating and gaining that weight!!  Remind her it's the one time in a womans life that it's ok to be a little piggy :)

    How is breastfeeding going for you?

  • Oh no!  Are they thinking it's a latch problem then?
  • It isn't a latch problem.  She latches like a champ.  She just doesn't have enough suck power to get the milk from the gland to her little mouth.  She tries though.  My nipples show it too!  The nurse across the street said that it happens a lot with "early term babies" - which Karter is since she was born at 37w4d.  As she gets older, she will have more suck power and we shouldn't have to do this anymore.  But until then, I just want her to have the breastmilk.

    Esther, it is going just fine considering.  I am not having all the issues that I thought I would.  The first time was really weird but now I just feel like I have to do what I have to do, ya know?  My biggest complaint is the intense nipple pain.  OH man!  My nipples had blisters and got all chafed but after using the nipple shield twice I already feel a difference.

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    My biggest complaint is the intense nipple pain.  OH man!  My nipples had blisters and got all chafed but after using the nipple shield twice I already feel a difference.

    Note to self: Get Nipple Shields.

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    It isn't a latch problem.  She latches like a champ.  She just doesn't have enough suck power to get the milk from the gland to her little mouth.  She tries though.  My nipples show it too!  The nurse across the street said that it happens a lot with "early term babies" - which Karter is since she was born at 37w4d.  As she gets older, she will have more suck power and we shouldn't have to do this anymore.  But until then, I just want her to have the breastmilk.

    Esther, it is going just fine considering.  I am not having all the issues that I thought I would.  The first time was really weird but now I just feel like I have to do what I have to do, ya know?  My biggest complaint is the intense nipple pain.  OH man!  My nipples had blisters and got all chafed but after using the nipple shield twice I already feel a difference.

    First of all, you aren't doing anything wrong.  Rowen had issues with sucking too (he was born 37 weeks 1 day) and no one told me this either.  Keep doing what you are doing and it will get better.  At least you have someone giving you advise that seems to be helping.  Good luck!

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  • Good to hear she drank the extra milk after her feeding. I hope your appt goes well tomorrow!!!
  • I'm sure it's nothing you're doing wrong, hopefully the new routine will get some weight on her. Hang in there, you guys will all get through it. ***vibes*** that she's able to avoid a hospital stay!!

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  • Sending many hugs to you and DH and eating vibes to the LO. 
  • I'm so sorry Ashley, I really hope she eats better soon, I'm sure you're doing fine.
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    Oh Ashley, you aren't doing anything wrong at all. Glad to hear it went better later today. Hope a hospital visit isn't needed. Sending tons and tons of eating vibes
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  • I am sorry she is having problems drinking from you.  But at least you got some re-assuring info that it is often and you are not alone.  It is great she drank the ounce from the bottle, if she keeps it up she will be gaining weight in no time.  Try not to stress, it sounds normal, and you seem to have found a solution.  Good luck and keep us updated.
    A & T Since 2009 Parents of A born July 2010
  • Sending you lots of :::vibes::: that she starts putting on some weight.  Please keep us updated.
  • Tons of vibes that KiKi gains weight!  
  • My ds was born at 38 weeks exactly and had some difficulty bfing at first. We did nipple shields, pumped into bottles,supplemenyed with formula,  the whole sha-bang. We also got conflicting advice. But he caught on quickly and had no problems afterwards. He bf'ed for 7 months.Don't give up! Buy that nipple cream and put breast pads in the freezer to help. Any questions, let me know!
    Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie DS: Born 2007 TTC #2- Diagnosed with secondary infertility, after 18 months and failed IUIs, we achieved success with IVF #1 DD: Born 2011
  • Aww..hope she gains some weight and things get easier!
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