Ok ladies. I originally was going to get a breast pump (which I really appreciate your suggestions!) but I think I want to do a little more research. The 15% off coupon expires on Sunday. My sister in law has this monitor..
https://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2970307
and really likes it. It monitors the babies breathing and makes sure the baby stays on the mat. It sends out beeps if the baby's breathing isn't detected or if the baby totally moves off the mat. Does anyone else have this and like it? Any other recommendations? TIA!!
(Sorry, but I'm the first one on both sides of my family to have a baby and I only have a couple friends with babies. I really appreciate all the advice!)
Re: Recommend your baby monitor
I have it and love it! We got a lot of false alarms at first but you just have to play with the sensitivity setting a bit. If you follow the directions and get a piece of masonite board to put under the pad then you don't get as many false alarms and it doesn't alarm right when they roll off the pad. He is all over the place in his crib now, but having the board there kind of lengthens the pads reach or something.
We do also have a video monitor that we got as a gift however, and I really like that too! It's major overkill to have both, I do realize that...but they each serve a purpose for us and I really like them!
We wouldn't have gotten much use out of it. We had DS in our room in a bassinet for almost four months. By the time we moved him to his crib at night, he could wiggle around and woud've never stayed in the proper place. We had a $50 Sony wireless sound-activated monitor for DD that we liked for 18 months until it burned out. So for DS, we got the Summer video monitor (after wishing we'd had one for DD as a baby) and think it's worth every penny...saves so many trips into his room to check on noises or crying and therefore us disturbing him (and therefore having to re-soothe and get him back down). FYI, it's less expensive on Amazon than BRU. We got a cheap audio one to put in DD's room now, and while it functions fine, it's not wireless and is always running (when we turn it on) - that constant humming a PP mentioned. I probably wouldn't get it again.
I don't know about the monitors that sense movement and breathing, but like PPs, I'm not sure DD would have stayed on the mat.
We have 2 monitors, actually. One is this Summer video monitor (a gift), which I really like for all the reasons listed above about them. I will say, though, that the monitor is big and because it's on my nightstand, throws a lot of light basically right to my face while I'm trying to sleep. Also, there's a weird big brother feeling I get sometimes about it. When do I stop using it? The neurotic part of me wants to use it for a long time, but there should be a point when I am no longer justified to watch my child all the time.
We also have this Graco monitor, which is what we use when we go to my parents or my ILs, since it's more portable.
I generally like both monitors and have had no problems with either. I think you have to be aware of things like interference if you live in an apartment or townhouse, and I think sometimes the phone can interfere depending on some technical thing I can't remember (gigahertz? I'm sure someone in any baby store can tell you).