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anniversary of a sad day..

baze2baze2
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I want to thank you girls for being here tonight. It is the anniversary of my first husbands death today. I found him at 2pm, five years ago. Boy is it fitting that it is a cold overcast day here.

I want to thank you all for taking my mind of it with your BFP's and questions and all!

 

"Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
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  • LizzyB11LizzyB11
    Oh my goodness! I can't imagine how hard that must have been for you. ::Hugs::
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  • ToshaGirlToshaGirl member

    BAZE!

    ((hugs))

    You are so strong.

     

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  • redsoxbonoredsoxbono
    Left Hug
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  • NowDNAtooNowDNAtoo
    Hugs are sent to you and wishes for many happy memories to fill you instead of the sad one.
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  • baze2baze2

    imageNowDNAtoo:
    Hugs are sent to you and wishes for many happy memories to fill you instead of the sad one.

    That is what is concentrate on! It's really ok. I just needed your distraction tonight and you guys are awesome!

    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
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  • leslieb923leslieb923
    Big hug to you tonight
    Married 5/12/07 Took 3 IUIs and 2 IVFs for our sweet boy He was worth the wait! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • MrsKarioMrsKario
    Baze - Im so sorry.  I cant even imagine how hard that must have been for you.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. 
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  • MAH123MAH123
    Baze, I can't even imagine....you are such a strong person with a positive outlook. Just know we are all here for you. (((hugs))))
    1 ectopic 3 m/c's prior to 5/05 Un-freaking-explained IF 5/05 IVF, BFN 9/05 FET 3d5e, BFP = Beautiful Baby Girl (lucky pg #5) 8/08 Fet 3d5e, cp 12/08 IVF with PGD, transfer 3, BFN 5/09 FET transfer 4, BFN Hail Mary IUI with Follistim 9/11 BFP; 9/22 confirmed tubal/MTX 4/10 FET 3d5e, BFP!!!! m/c 5/26/10 1 year break and yet another m/c 5/11 FET #5 initial beat 121, second beta 7 Lap and removal of L tube and very mild endo 7/11 Suprise BFP 12/11 & m/c @ 8 wks. After 11 losses and one beautiful miracle our journey is over, we are thankful and at peace.
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  • shyntrueshyntrue
    {{{{{Big Hugs}}}}}
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  • baze2baze2

    Honestly Ladies, I have to share something. Everyone of you would be as strong as me and are. We are as strong as we need to be. We get strength from unknown and stange places. We realize who are friends are and who aren't friends (believe me on this...my old closest friends have yet to maintain contact).

    When a tragedy, obstacle stands in our way like a mountain, we must climb it. It doesn't matter if it is IF, death, divorce, health issues. We just have this ability as women to start one step at a time! We shed tears, get counseling and survive.

    Onward ladies (as someone we all know stated!). Although I will never forget my experiences, my loves, the fagility of life, the support I need, the ache in my heart for a soulmate lost to soon, and the beauty of love that overcomes such an ache, a man who accepts me with my defects and the love of this board from complete strangers. They all help me move onward!

    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
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  • SavedByZeroSavedByZero
    :: hugs ::
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  • CharBartCharBart
    Big ((hugs)) Baze...my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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  • sadie sadiesadie sadie
    Left Hug
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  • ougrad1ougrad1 member
    My thoughts are with you Baze.  Noone should have to be in that situation especially as young as you are. 
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  • panda246panda246

    Sorry I'm a little late, but I pray that you found comfort from your +35 friends. 

    Here's to a new day and a new big HUG from me!

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  • hollymichaelhollymichael
    I'm a little late, but lots of hugs!
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  • JillAlyJillAly member

    imagehollymichael:
    I'm a little late, but lots of hugs!

    My thoughts exactly. 

    3 IUI's and 2 IVF's later- Brady arrived. Born at 36 weeks after PUPPS and pre-e/HELLP.
    IUI- BFN IVF #1 -BFP! Allie is our 2nd IVF baby. Born at 36 1/2 weeks after pre-e again
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  • thewormstheworms member
    really late but more ((HUGS))
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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
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  • FrannySFrannyS

    ...even later...but a day after the sad anniversary ((Hugs))...we 35+ gals are always here for you...

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  • StrunellaStrunella member
    Ok, I am the LATEST...but thinking of you and hoping you're doing ok today.  **mushies**
     
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