I can't concentrate on ANYTHING

Re: I can't concentrate on ANYTHING

• 23MountainGirl

  March 2010

  P.S. Sorry for the vent

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• love4existence

  March 2010

  Im so sorry, im feeling the same way. like you, my apartment has become a mess and im not even grocery shopping or doing laundry,all i have been doing is sitting in front of the tv all day crying. theres no food in the house and my hubby has been way too busy with work to go shop for us so we've been eating pizza every night. blehh. i hope you feel a little better soon
  

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• Aubs0009 member

  March 2010

  Well if it makes you feel better. I have spent almost all day messing around on the boards. I can't see to focus on anything else either.

  Hope you day gets better!

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• britt_dickey

  March 2010

  I am right there with ya!  My apt is a mess yet (but it does need to be vacuumed and bathrooms cleaned) but I don't even feel like I WANT to concentrate on anything!  I kind of like this foggy brain...makes it easier to not focus on Ella Grace.

  Peanut-m/c 03/08 NuNu-m/c 12/08 Ella Grace-stillborn 03/04/10 Itty-m/c 02/11 "He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us." 2 Corinthians 1:4 Peace B.E.G.A.N

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• verona_1999

  March 2010

  Don't beat yourself up about it.  Let's be honest no matter if you clean or not it will get dirty again.  I haven't been cleaning much lately either or anything else except work because I HAVE to do that.  And I hope you get your moment to lay in bed and cry, everyone needs that every now and then.  T&P's with you!

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• butterfly843

  March 2010

  Sending hugs.

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• mcbeal629

  March 2010

  I haven't touched my apartment since I found out.  I have two weeks of laundry, dishes piled in the sink, and my floors are gross.  Oh, and kitty litter to do since apparently that's my job again.

  I don't see myself getting around to any of it anytime soon.  I'm supposed to be planning a wedding and I'm pretty unmotivated there as well.  

  You are certainly not alone.
  

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• Cristine member

  March 2010

  I think that's completely normal. It took me about 2 weeks to get back to wanting to anything. I had a week of work to make out so it was another week till I started on the house. You're definitely not alone.

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• spincat9 member

  March 2010

  You are not alone. Be patient with yourself and allow yourself time to grieve.  It's a lot to digest.  I'm still having trouble concentrating at work, but each day I get a better handle on it.  I hope the same for you.  Try exercise, and focus on eating right - both of these might help.  T & P's are with you.

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