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mommamelmo
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X is lame (vent)
mommamelmo
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So I was lurking his facebook to see if he has been working or not and found out that he is seeing someone. Kinda hurt me and sent me for a loop... But I confronted him about it, we need to be adults about things. And he admitted (after a bit of pushing on my part) that he is seeing someone but they aren't dating because he isnt ready for that yet. Whatever, call it what you want you are still banging someone else. He freaked on me when i started asking about it... I just wanted to know how serious it was. Not my place to know, I shouldnt care because I kicked him out, he tried to make things better but I wouldn't try, blah blah blah!! It wasnt the fact that he has moved on and we have only been seperated for 15 weeks. It was the thought of a step-mom to DS... I'm not ready for that. And after I explained that he agreed. He said that she knows our situation and why things ended but is supportive of him and doesnt want to meet DS until X is ready for that... Whatever, I can't control what he does. But I feel better that I asked for DS not to meet his flings..
After we talked he changed his facebook status to some poem he wrote that I inspired... Something about him wanting to be able dry tears, make things better, knows that things cant be fix, but knows that "she" is still the girl he would die for.... Says it's not ABOUT me that i just INSPIRED it. Call it how you want it loser-boy, you aren't over THIS yet!!
He told me that I would get along great with his new fling. We have similar personalities. So I checked her out on facebook... The funny thing is that she is basically me when I was 17!!
Anyways. It all made me cry. But then I realized that she is the rebound, and there will be more rebounds. I don't need to jump the guns. I'm waiting to figure my life out, get back on my feet, and take things slow. I don't need a man to make me happy. I don't need to get laid. I get to spend my time with the 2 people that will ALWAYS mean the most to me DS and DD. They are what I live for.
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Re: X is lame (vent)
Is your ex dating a 17 yr old?
I understand being pissed. I was when I found out about my ex introducing my DD to his new gf. A heads up would have been nice. If it makes you feel any better, I did get over it. I realize that DB can spend his time with whatever piece of ass he wants to, and that I will spend my time with our kids. His loss, IMO.
Absoutely not my problem!!! Just hope she doesn't get too caught up in his lies that she ends up with a kiddo too.
Though the flip side would be nice... if he gets too caught up in the no-kid-world that he leaves DS and I (and soon to be DD) alone!!
Not sure of her actual age but I would say between 17 and 20... (X is 26 - 27 in may - for those who want to judge him)... She's a shift supervisor at a coffee shop WoooHoooo!!
It was just the inital shock that hurt. But he will NEVER have anything THIS good again!!!
This is my situation exactly. It sucks too, just on a different level. As a side note, I personally think that a woman should not date a man who has a baby on the way. That should be some sort of unspoken girl-rule.
ABSOUTELY!! I am not going out and getting laid out of respect for the LO growing inside of me... and I think it would be weird. He could at least have the same respect for me. But that's my opinion. And there is an unspoken rule in my mind... But if the guy is a skeeze - like most of the Xs on this board - they just wouldn't own up to a baby and pull the "i didn't know it was mine" sorta thing or break it off before it got to that point.
Do we have the same X?! This is completely my situation. X is rebounding with some girl who is still in hs. It just makes me realize how pathetic he truly is - and for any girl who is honestly interested in a guy who has a baby on the way, shouldn't that be a red flag??? LOL
The baby on the way OR getting a divorce at 26 OR living in your mom's basement OR not paying your own bills OR not seeing DS in a month should be BRIGHT RED FLAGS!!
(Hope no one takes offence to the divorce comment, I just mean that he obviously doesnt think things thru and the fact that he was only married for 2 years should prove to someone that he doesn't make the right decisions)