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iui #1 didn't work out.

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so AF arrival today. not fun, but . . .what can I do?

so, I have call into RE about doing laproscopy this month on his advice, and taking month break from meds and IUI for that. back to ttc on our own. that hasn't worked for us (and obviously that wasn't successful either) since . . um 2008.  oh well. then return to IUI #2 in April.

I'll still lurk around here and learn from all of you - I do thank you for all your help and advice through this process and wish you all well.

m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • SmilingMrsFSmilingMrsF member
    I'm so sorry.  I was more sad over IUI #1 not working than any of my other cycles.  I think you just get your hopes up so much that an IUI is going to work and when it doesn't (especially the first time) it's absolutely devastating.  Good luck with your lap.
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  • dianne2007dianne2007
    I am sorry.
    TTC (Seriously) from May 2009 IF DX: ? 1st RE appointment- September 2009 Oct 09: Clomid Ovidrel = BFN Nov 09: Clomid Ovidrel Endometrin = BFN Dec 09: Follicular Cysts, BCP to shrink Jan 2010-IUI #1: Gonal-f Ovidrel Endometrin Accupuncture=BFN Feb 2010- Break March 2010- IUI #2: Gonal-f Ovidrel Endometrin= BFN April 2010- IUI #3: Gonal-f Ovidrel Endometrin= BFN Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • AshleyR2452AshleyR2452
    I'm sorry!    (((hugs)))
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  • mrshoppy_1231mrshoppy_1231
    I'm sorry, the first was hard for me too. ((hugs))
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  • mainesmichellemainesmichelle member

    I am sorry to hear iui #1 didn't work.  I just got my BFN this morning for my #2iui.

    Good Luck on the next round.

    Michelle
    Blythe Elizabeth is here March 27,2012
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  • Amie8301Amie8301
    I am so, so sorry. I remember how devastated I was after IUI #1's BFN. IF absoultely sucks. I'll be thinking of you. Take care.
    Crohn's resulting in colectomy with J-Pouch surgery in 2000/2001.
    TTC since August 2008
    IVF#1: BFFN; IVF#2: BFN; FET with new RE: BFN
    IVF#3: ER 1/15; ET 1/20; Beta#1 1/29: 339!
    Twins girls born via c/s at 37w/3d!!
    "Let it go, this too shall pass."
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  • QuiltingBeeQuiltingBee
    I'm so very sorry.
    image 30 y/o with PCOS HSG normal, SA essentially normal (slightly low morph but good # and motility) 50 mg Clomid...zip; 100 mg Clomid...nada; 150 mg Clomid...zilch 1/10 Injectable cycle with Gonal-F, Ovidrel, and TI.....Beta 2/22...BFN 2/10 Injectable cycle with Gonal-F and Follistim (long story), Ovidrel..BFN 4/10 Injectable cycle (see above). BFP but early m/c 5w5d. 5/10 Break cycle due to BFC (Big Fat Cyst)...darn it all 6/10 Injectable cycle +IUI...BFN 7/10 Injectable cycle + IUI.....BFP!!! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • MrsP71506MrsP71506

    I am so sorry

    The first was hard for me as well

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  • LuvWIfootballLuvWIfootball member
    I'm sorry it didn't work.

                          

    PAIFW/SAIFW

    DS1 born July 2002 (previous marriage).

    TTC since Oct 08. DH Dx w/testicular cancer March 09.
    MFI due to retrograde ejaculation/azoospermia.
    5/2 IVF #1 cancelled due to large follie.
    6/14 start Lupron for IVF #1.2. 6/22 start stims.
    7/4 ER and Biopsy.
    7/9 Transferred 2 (1-4BB and 1-3BB) embryos.  4 frosties.
    7/15 +HPT 6dp5dt. 7/18 Beta #1: 193. 7/20 Beta #2: 415.
    8/10 1st u/s - It's triplets!

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  • juliebee80juliebee80
    I'm so sorry, best wishes with your lap. 
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  • Babsie7Babsie7 member
    I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • steveandkim2steveandkim2 member

    I'm sorry too!  Like everyone else, I think I had incredibly high expectations for IUI#1 (and thought "how can it not work?"), so I was disappointed with the result.

     GL with your next cycle!

    TTC since April 2009 dx = PCOS; TTC History for DS - A FET miracle after 7 IUIs; 2 fresh transfers, and 1 other FET resulted in BFNs. Hoping and Praying for baby #2: Cycle 1 - FET; November 2012 BFN Next Steps - who knows? Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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  • momagain2009momagain2009 member

    I'm so so sorry, I was really hoping this was it for you.  My first IUI was crushing too, I think I'm numb to it all now.

    I hope you get a surprise BFP during your break!  Good luck!

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  • Laura & HarrisonLaura & Harrison
    I'm so sorry! I'm gearing up for IUI #1 and I'm nervous that it won't work!
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  • ashnm15ashnm15
    So sorry it didn't work out. I took the first IUI failure hard too. You get so excited because its the best chance you've had. I tried to keep my self grounded but... Good luck with your next one!
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  • mirgirlmirgirl member

    I'm sorry it didn't work out this time!  I just suffered my first IUI BFN last week and am still recovering.  I was so sure the whole 2ww that I would get a BFP... but nope.  We have now started our first cycle of follistim and hope for the best this time.  But if not, we will also be taking a month or two off of drugs and will likely just continue with accupuncture during the rest. 

     Good luck to you!!!

    TTC Since Nov. 2008 Twins through IVF!
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