I haven't been to either, but when I asked around, I was told that Hilton Head is the better choice. I've heard that it is more family friendly, but again, I am not speaking from personal experience. Based on reviews from friends and family, we are heading to Hilton Head in July.
Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/9/11 - 34:24 - 1st race evah!
Kelly Monaghan's 5K - 5/15/11 - 3rd Place in AG
Walk the Talk 5K - 5/18/11 - 31:12 PR
Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
HH is more resort like. Lots of activities, shops, restaurants, ect. Outer banks is more nature based, outdoor activities, both are great. I would probably go with HH though for that many little ones.
Hilton Head has significantly more to do and more options. Outer Banks is more rural - more like you'd go to the grocery and get food for the week, as opposed to eating out, for example. When we went to Hilton Head, we ate out a lot more and did more activities.
I think with really young kids, OBX is nice because it's really relaxed and easy to just go to the beach for a bit and then head back to the house/condo for naps.
However, with that said, I think I prefer Hilton Head - it would appeal to people for different reasons, which I think is better in a large group.
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Love love love the Outer Banks. Went every summer from like 8-25 (when my parents moved to FL). Parts are more "resort-like" like closer to Kitty Hawk and more "rural" closer to Avon. That said, I still think I would pick Hilton Head. The waves at the Outer Banks can be really really rough. My parents would worry about my brother and I out in them even as we got older - teenagers and such. It totally depends on the weather and surf and everything. It can be pretty calm, but it is pretty rough a lot. We're waiting for the kids to get older before we go there, anyway.
We were just trying to figure out the same thing and we chose Hilton Head. We found a great 3BR 2BA condo right near the beach through VRBO.com. We are headed to Hilton Head in late June. We decided to stay near North/South Forest Beach as they have new public bathrooms there and our condo we are staying at offers private bathrooms/cabanas on the beach if you stay there.
Re: Hilton Head vs Outer Banks?
Kelly Monaghan's 5K - 5/15/11 - 3rd Place in AG
Walk the Talk 5K - 5/18/11 - 31:12 PR
Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
Hilton Head has significantly more to do and more options. Outer Banks is more rural - more like you'd go to the grocery and get food for the week, as opposed to eating out, for example. When we went to Hilton Head, we ate out a lot more and did more activities.
I think with really young kids, OBX is nice because it's really relaxed and easy to just go to the beach for a bit and then head back to the house/condo for naps.
However, with that said, I think I prefer Hilton Head - it would appeal to people for different reasons, which I think is better in a large group.