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NBR: I feel really bad about being mean to DH. Please flame me!

PrincessLinLinPrincessLinLin
in 3rd Trimester
He knows that I get irritated when he wakes me up early before he leaves for work. Well he kept trying to wake me up before he left for work this morning and then realized he had to go to my uncles house before work because his time sheets were in his car that my uncle is fixing. So he calls me like 30 minutes later because he cannot find my uncles street (he's only been there twice) and also needs to know how to get to the highway once he leaves my uncles house. I basically yelled at him and cursed him up and down saying it was HIS responsibility to get to work and things like that. Well he just called me again like 10 minutes ago because he's lost in the area he's supposed to be working in and he's late for work. He sounded like he was about to cry. So now I feel like the world's biggest b!tch EVER! I need to come up with something really good to make this up to him. 
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Re: NBR: I feel really bad about being mean to DH. Please flame me!

  • acaudill042106acaudill042106
    Man...that was mean.  I have no idea...id be sucking up to dh for a solid week to make up for something like that.  My husband gets anxiety from driving in unknown places.  Maybe get him a gps and cook him dinner.
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  • summernesummerne
    poor fella! Apologize and make him a nice dinner or something.
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  • FutureMrsDavidsonFutureMrsDavidson
    That was uncalled for. You really need to do something nice for your husband and apologize for your behavior. Bring him an awesome lunch to work or cook him a great dinner with dessert.Also, like a previous poster said buy him a gps. 
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  • Tulips21Tulips21
    i would just say sorry...  i have learnt that anything i say to DH before he has coffee and a smoke will be misinterpreted and I will get yelled at.   i think he's a jerk for being like that, but at the same time i should know better than to talk to him before his morning ritual,
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  • jessicaskyyjessicaskyy
    I would make it up to him by buying him a GPS, so he doesn't have to deal with your cranky a$$ anymore.
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  • bootcampbridebootcampbride
    You really can't expect to have a great marriage without respect. What respecting the fact that he is getting up early and going to work?  Its not easy to leave a lovely warm bed with your love in it to go to work. 
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  • AlikiAliki member

    imagebootcampbride:
    You really can't expect to have a great marriage without respect. What respecting the fact that he is getting up early and going to work?  Its not easy to leave a lovely warm bed with your love in it to go to work. 

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  • jodi_pjodi_p

    This:

    imagejessicaskyy:
    I would make it up to him by buying him a GPS, so he doesn't have to deal with your cranky a$$ anymore.
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  • iimallyours21iimallyours21

    I get upset about stupid stuff al the time. If DH drops something on floor and doesnt pick it up right away i yell at him and ask him why he expects me to do everything for him. LOL crazy hormones

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  • MorissaWMorissaW

    I would say sorry and leave it at that. I would do the same thing if this happened to me.

    I am shocked at the the actual faming going on here. You are horomonal and are not expected to be levelheaded 100% of the time.

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  • UKMom1UKMom1
    I think sorry and a nice dinner are a great way to apologize.  Personally, I'm a huge b!tch in the morning - don't even think about talking to me for the first 30 minutes I'm awake and DH knows this and doesn't speak to me until I speak first.  It's the way I've already been.  I also snap at DH for no good reason because of these crazy hormones.  I just always say I'm sorry once I've settled down.
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