TTC After a Loss

can I vent? NTTCAL..well maybe it is

My SIL is a FH with a capital F and H..she just had their 5th kid...every day I get at least 6 text messages with pics of the baby..I get it, she's cute but really I don't need this many updates on the freaking kid..well they live out of town and they're coming home this weekend...I could not be dreading this weekend more...they had a baby two years ago and we never got pics of him..why is this one different?  I'm normally someone who loves babies..but for some reason this new niece I'm not excited about at all because her mom is such a b!tch...

okay vent over..ahh, I feel better..I can't admit this to DH or he'll think I'm horrible because this is his niece we're talking about here

Re: can I vent? NTTCAL..well maybe it is

  • Aww Heidi, you're not horrible. 

    Does she know about your loss? Maybe she's thinking it'll give you hope? Who knows. That would annoy me SO BADLY!! I'm sorry hun.

    Hang in there. 

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  • oh she knows..she's one of those "just relax and it'll happen people"..as she rubs her pg belly..

    this weekend is gonna take alot of gin

  • Oh geez, that is a bit much.  I hope the visit goes well. 
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  • That sucks.  I hope the weekend isn't too bad for you. 

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    oh she knows..she's one of those "just relax and it'll happen people"..as she rubs her pg belly..

    Grrrr.... When people do that it makes me very stabby....

     

  • I'm sorry.  Your not horrible.  And your DH may get it, mine does with his sister.
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  • Ugh I'm sorry.  I hope the gin this weekend helps.
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  • I think that calls for an industrial size bottle of gin.
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    this weekend is gonna take alot of gin

    this will make it all better......I'm so sorry you have to deal with such a stupid FH.

  • Will keep you in my thoughts this weekend.

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