My 27 y/o brother got his 19 y/o gf KTFU...

ParadisePrincess · March 2010

True story. They've been dating for two months and she has an 8 month old already. She's due November 11th. He's ecstatic and I'm..well...nervous. But I guess good for him if he's happy right? Tongue Tied

anabell0920 · March 2010

Well since he is happy all you can do is be happy for him. Telling him he made a mistake will not undo anything and all it will do is drive a wedge there. That being said I hope things work out! Two months isn't very long to decide you want to be tied to a person for the rest of your life!

mjcleve · March 2010

Yikes!

iimallyours21 · March 2010

i think hes excited cause hes 27. i think shes probably freaking out inside. 2 MONTHS! what did they just meet and start trying??

ParadisePrincess · March 2010

anabell0920:
Well since he is happy all you can do is be happy for him. Telling him he made a mistake will not undo anything and all it will do is drive a wedge there. That being said I hope things work out! Two months isn't very long to decide you want to be tied to a person for the rest of your life!

Yeah I completely agree. I haven't said anything negative to him just congratulated him. I don't really know this girl at all, I've only met her twice, but why I do feel like I want to punch her in face? hahaha yeah that's totally irrational Embarrassed

vanverth · March 2010

Part of me wants to join you in asking both of them "Did you not know where babies came from?" Damage has already been done though so all you can do is sit back and wait and see. The worse case is that he pays child support and has visitation.

bootcampbride · March 2010

Jacka**

AbJams · March 2010

iimallyours21:

i think hes excited cause hes 27. i think shes probably freaking out inside. 2 MONTHS! what did they just meet and start trying??

Um, something tells me they weren't exactly "trying".

But yeah, all you can do is be supportive, there's no point in lamenting the fact that it isn't an ideal situation. Babies are a blessing, right?

anabell0920 · March 2010

ParadisePrincess:
anabell0920:
Well since he is happy all you can do is be happy for him. Telling him he made a mistake will not undo anything and all it will do is drive a wedge there. That being said I hope things work out! Two months isn't very long to decide you want to be tied to a person for the rest of your life!
Yeah I completely agree. I haven't said anything negative to him just congratulated him. I don't really know this girl at all, I've only met her twice, but why I do feel like I want to punch her in face? hahaha yeah that's totally irrational

Oh trust me I would feel exactly the same! Just remember it takes two to tango so punch him as well! lol I just know that dh's family drove a huge wedge between themselves and him when we were getting married. So that's why I would keep some comments to myself lol.

KKWISC · March 2010

vanverth:
Part of me wants to join you in asking both of them "Did you not know where babies came from?" Damage has already been done though so all you can do is sit back and wait and see. The worse case is that he pays child support and has visitation.

This! I think a box of condoms for a gift after the baby is born would be fitting.

ParadisePrincess · March 2010

Ugh. The whole thing kind of makes me sick. He really doesn't understand why no one is jumping for joy. I sincerely hope it works out for them and I know I'll love the little bugger no matter what but this is harder than when he eloped with some other chick I've never met! <---yes that happened.

VampyAuthor · March 2010

anabell0920:
Well since he is happy all you can do is be happy for him. Telling him he made a mistake will not undo anything and all it will do is drive a wedge there. That being said I hope things work out! Two months isn't very long to decide you want to be tied to a person for the rest of your life!

Very much this. I definitely hope things fall into place and work out.

ABColeslaw · March 2010

It is so hard to be happy for someone in a situation like this one. But...if hes happy then try and be happy with him. He may be sad later....and then be sad with him. I hope everything works of for them...I really do.

BFab11 · March 2010

Wow, 2 months together and all of a sudden he's gonna be a daddy and a step-dad? I hope it works out... and I hope this girl isn't looking for money; if she already has an 8 month old, you have to wonder if there are any ulterior motives...

Most of all, I hope you can keep a good relationship with your brother, no matter what happens.

karleen83 · March 2010

vanverth:
Part of me wants to join you in asking both of them "Did you not know where babies came from?" Damage has already been done though so all you can do is sit back and wait and see. The worse case is that he pays child support and has visitation.

OR.. she pays and has visitation

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