My MIL and SIL wanted to throw me a separate shower with their side of the family and their friends. I wasn't crazy about the idea of having two showers but it seemed like they really wanted to do it so I agreed. We didn't discuss dates or anything and today MIL informs me that she wants to do it in April. I will only be like 26 weeks pregnant and that seemed really early to me...this shower is all for family and friends who are local so no one will be traveling in town for it. I told her that I am not sure how comfortble I am with having it that early and asked her if their was a reason why, and she said no...just that they don't know what their plans are in May and June yet and she knew her April was free. Was it wrong of me to ask her to hold off until May or June for the shower? I just have this weird feeling that she wants to have her shower "first" and that is why she is pushing for April. Should I just get over it and let her do it in April or stick to what I am more comfortable with?