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NBR: But kid and ex related

dori1678dori1678
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My daughters father just called me to ask if he can see our daughter on Sunday. This really pisses me off! He'll go 2 months without seeing her, then calls me up and expects me to drop our weekend plans so he can see his daughter. (She doesn't like going over to his apartment. She has called my husband Daddy since she was 1 year and 6 months old)

So I just lied and said that we had plans all weekend and he can see her next weekend. I'm going to break him of this calling 2 days beforehand crap!  GRRRRRR!!!!!! 

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Re: NBR: But kid and ex related

  • samakasrcsamakasrc member
    Way to stand up for you and for your daughter!  He has to learn, he can't just be a daddy when its convenient for him.
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  • micaelasmakeupmicaelasmakeup member

    Yes

    My bf exH is JUST like this.  she will call for a month to arrange for spring break or Christmas or whatever and no answer then one day before she is supposed to go and say I'm on my way to pick her up!  Rrrr so annoying.  It just makes you not be able to wait till they day they turn 16 and can say sorry Dad I can't come over:)






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  • dori1678dori1678
    imagemicaelasmakeup:

    Yes

    My bf exH is JUST like this.  she will call for a month to arrange for spring break or Christmas or whatever and no answer then one day before she is supposed to go and say I'm on my way to pick her up!  Rrrr so annoying.  It just makes you not be able to wait till they day they turn 16 and can say sorry Dad I can't come over:)

    No kidding! I have a feeling she'll be saying it a lot sooner than 16. My H wants to adopt her and we have decided to give her the option when she can legally make that decision on her own.  

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  • clarku2000clarku2000 member
    My sister's ex-husband does this to her.  He doesn't pay child support, moved out of state, and their agreement is that he can have his son for 2 weeks every 2 months.  He was supposed to have him for Christmas but called 1 week prior and said he couldn't take him.  It's now March and he hasn't seen his kid in 5 months.  Now he suddenly wants him for 2 weeks in a few days--not exactly enough time to plan...
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  • vegandyvegandy
    That would irritate me too.  I would tell him he needs to figure out a regular visitation schedule...even if it is just once a month.  Popping in & out like that can be super confusing for small children, they need stability.
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