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Trouble TTC
gymnst1013
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I think I need a pep talk
gymnst1013
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in Trouble TTC
I'm feeling absolutely zero hope for this cycle. I don't know why. I just have no symptoms and feel like it really didn't happen and it's depressing the shiit out of me. If this didn't work, we likely only have one more shot. With me not working we just can't afford anything else. All I want to do is cry right now. Ugh, am I debbie downer or what?
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Re: I think I need a pep talk
I really don't have a pep talk, but I have
I'm so sorry Gym. You are not a debbie downer at all.
:::hugs:::
Aw, ((BIG HUGS))! OK, first of all just remember that every pregnancy is different and you may have different symptoms -- or maybe none at all until later.
Next, remember that it only takes one!
And you've gotten things lined up nicely for your body to embrace that one -- there's no reason to think that it won't work again.
I know it's all easier said than done, but you are doing everything right and everything in your power to achieve a successful pregnancy -- believe that your body knows what it's doing now and it will do it now!
Kinda like when you have an old beater car and you cajole it each morning into starting -- sweet talk your ute!
It will happen! 
((hugs))
((hugs))
I'm sorry you're having such a hard time this cycle. I know it's hard to stay positive, especially when you're feeling like it didn't happen.
I'm feeling VERY positive about you this cycle. Here are my reasons, because I'm not just blowing smoke up your butt, I really do think it's going to happen.
1) Your timing was the same as your BFP cycle, and the nurse told you that time that often with male issues it's better to have the egg waiting for the sperm.
2) DH's count has gone WAY up since he quit smoking. His boys are better, strong, healthier and there are more of them. That's great news!
3) It's just meant to happen right now. The plan is falling into place and it will happen. I just know it.
Perk up buttercup!!! It's all going to work out the way it's meant to.
Love you!
LO#1 - 19 cycles, 3 IUIs, 1 m/c, gonal-f, ganirelix, ovidrel, progesterone
Totally worth the wait!
Getting ready for #2
Back on Met, PCOS diet, prepping for treatments 1/12
Good luck to the wonderful ladies of 3T
Always cheering on my girls Gymnst1013 & MrsJohns
My Chart / Info for Newbies
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Don't give up on this cycle Gym. You are probably just scared so are protecting yourself by thinking negatively.
You girls are so great - I knew I could count on you. You've got me in tears (good ones!) Apparently I don't do the 2ww as well as I thought I did.
Mrs.Bones, you crack me up
That MUST have been what they were thinking!
flgirl - I have my GS cookies in front of me as we speak - yum.
(((hugs))) I'm sorry you're having a bad day Gym. Just like everyone else has said, you're definitely still in it - symptomless or not! Try to stay positive..
No words ... just ((hugs))
A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP
2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF
Gym - I know it's hard, but try to have positive thoughts!!! I don't really have any symptoms now and I am trying to keep strong. I didn't have any really last time either - except sore boobs and that was normal for me every month!!
I am staying positive for us both and praying every day!!!